casecall Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 3 Weeks In no communication , whats going on My girlfriend Jamie dumped me after 9 months of sharing our love, I'm not a bad guy. She told me i wasn't exciting anymore and gave me the whole its not you it's me rant. Told me she wanted to still be friends . But after a week or two of us splitting the girl went and got herself a new man. Told me she wanted nothing to do with an old country boy like myself. I chased her then stopped met a real nice gal, then my ex Jamie started contacting me late at night . showing interest after i told her my new gal wasn't all that, but still throwing her new man in my face. i got comfortable with her and started showing affection she went missing again. by this time me and my new gal was pretty comfortable. Jamie noticed and started getting jealous asking if i still care for her and what i like about my new gal ,real jealous stuff. she assured me she didn't want an ole boy like me. but told me my new girl was up to no good and said i had better leave her alone. now she don't know nothing of my new gal. i told her i wasn't gone leave her alone, a couple days after that she told me out of no where she didn't want nothing to do with me told me this new old guy was perfect for her and to have a nice life. i haven't spoke to her in 3 weeks or so, what's going on , reckon she'll contact me soon? what she up to now.? Link to post Share on other sites
alexjames88 Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 You're ex is emotionally immature. She made a decision. If she feels it was the wrong decision then she can show through action that she has regret and wants to be with you. Right now you both are using other people as pawns to make the other jealous or/and to take the pain away from breaking up for yourselves. At least she has stopped doing this. They always say they want to remain friends. It rarely happens and is even rarer it is a good idea unless there is something like a house or child that means you must stay in contact and civil or the breakup was amicable and agreed upon by both parties. She was quite honest and cruel by telling you the exact reason that basically you were boring to her. Use that to turn the love into hatred then eventually disgust for her and you will be able to forget her a lot faster. Just don't go overboard with the hatred and try to seek retribution. Link to post Share on other sites
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