sarahsmith Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Okay I started the thread "WHat does a married man mean when he says".... and since then have sent him an email letting him know I appreciate him but am beginning to feel bad for confiding in him as if my husband found out he would be very hurt and that is the last thing I would want to do is hurt my husband regardless of what we may or may not be going through. I did thank him for being supportive, and someone I was able to trust. I sent the email Thursday late afternoon.. absolutely know he has been in the office and he did not respond via phone or email to date. Has called others in our region, so I know he is working but has not responded since. Any thoughts???
jmargel Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Just drop it and let it go. Work on the issues within your marriage. I told my wife to never talk to another male about our relationship problems. That sends a signal to the guy that not only there are problems, but she is interested in him in one way or another. That's why they have counselors, I suggest you two find a good one.
Amethyst Posted November 1, 2004 Posted November 1, 2004 Jmargel is SO right! You *NEED* to stop communicating with this guy. You *NEED* to cut your ties with him before things get worse. You *NEED* to stop focusing on this guy and start focusing on your HUSBAND! Count your blessings that this guy *isn't* responding. And, on the chance that he *does* respond later, do yourself a favor -- delete the email (unread!) and move on.
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