MomsSpaghetti Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 You get put in the friend zone because she's not attracted to you; i.e. you're not physically attractive enough. If she's attracted to you and you've never made a move, then you're still in the zone where you can make a move and ask her out. True that she might see you as a friend, but that doesn't mean she excludes you as a possible romantic partner. A girl who is attracted to you doesn't suddenly become unattracted after a time limit expires. Enough with this "I didn't make my intentions known, so now she only sees me as a friend" bull****. If she only sees you as a friend, that means you're not physically attractive to her. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted August 6, 2013 Share Posted August 6, 2013 If you do make a move, then you won't get stuck in the friendzone - there will be no ambiguity. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Yeah, seriously. Women aren't mind-readers, and we're scared of rejection, too. I say give it a chance, and if it doesn't go well, who cares? That's one less girl you want to date anyway, especially if she can't see how awesome you are, right? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ForeverHopeful1 Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 You get put in the friend zone because she's not attracted to you; i.e. you're not physically attractive enough. If she's attracted to you and you've never made a move, then you're still in the zone where you can make a move and ask her out. True that she might see you as a friend, but that doesn't mean she excludes you as a possible romantic partner. A girl who is attracted to you doesn't suddenly become unattracted after a time limit expires. Enough with this "I didn't make my intentions known, so now she only sees me as a friend" bull****. If she only sees you as a friend, that means you're not physically attractive to her. Amen!!! Very tired of hearing this Link to post Share on other sites
MrTurk Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 You get put in the friend zone because she's not attracted to you; i.e. you're not physically attractive enough. If she's attracted to you and you've never made a move, then you're still in the zone where you can make a move and ask her out. True that she might see you as a friend, but that doesn't mean she excludes you as a possible romantic partner. A girl who is attracted to you doesn't suddenly become unattracted after a time limit expires. Enough with this "I didn't make my intentions known, so now she only sees me as a friend" bull****. If she only sees you as a friend, that means you're not physically attractive to her. I dont agree 100% I do get your point....but I have experienced situations where I didnt make a move...and then the women see me as "that guy" and looks for a guy that will. If the woman is attracted to the guy for a relationship/long term....then yes, your scenario fits most of the time. If the woman is just out looking for some fun...and you miss your cue to make a move....chances are high that her opinion of you will change. Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 There is a window for attraction. It's just not reliant on making a sexual move but it is reliant on expressing romantic interest within the window. Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Maybe there is a window for women who want a baby tomorrow.No. The window holds true for a lot of women, especially ones that are in high demand. Bear in mind that if a guy doesn't make his interest known within a reasonable time frame, there will always be other guys who will. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
joystickd Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 If you do make a move, then you won't get stuck in the friendzone - there will be no ambiguity. That is true because she will have to outright reject you. I'd rather have that then be told let's be friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Content Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Well if a girls not attracted to you then no it doesnt matter but ive had a women in my circle flirt with me and at the time i wasnt sure if i was into her and kind of avoided her advances then a few months later when i was a little more attracted and maybe ready to make a move she was into my friend so some women do take that as rejection and will move on quickly. Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Except no woman is slamming a window shut on a high demand male even if he pisses her off.Inaccurate, to say the least. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 You get put in the friend zone because she's not attracted to you; i.e. you're not physically attractive enough. If she's attracted to you and you've never made a move, then you're still in the zone where you can make a move and ask her out. True that she might see you as a friend, but that doesn't mean she excludes you as a possible romantic partner. A girl who is attracted to you doesn't suddenly become unattracted after a time limit expires. Enough with this "I didn't make my intentions known, so now she only sees me as a friend" bull****. If she only sees you as a friend, that means you're not physically attractive to her. I think there are a lot of ways to get put into the friend zone. Most of them are accidental not purposeful. Not making a move is one way, her not being interested no matter when you make a move is another, her having a boyfriend or a husband is still another. The "friendzone" is an interesting sociological subject that deserves much research and study... Link to post Share on other sites
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