atthebay Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 my best friend is in a exclusive relationship with a girl for 5 months now. they look really happy together. she hangs out with our gang all the time and everyone likes her. last week i found her kissing another dude from her art class and did a low act of stalking her and found out that shes been running on my friend for 3 months now. she begged me not to tell him and also said she is madly in him and will end her affair then.but to me it looks like she is not going to. i am trying to hint my best friend about this but he will be devastated if i tell him . what do i do ? i dont want to hurt my friend PS: i myself am not good with relationships. Link to post Share on other sites
gill17 Posted August 7, 2013 Share Posted August 7, 2013 Personally, I'd be more disappointed with my friend if I found out they'd known, yet not told me. I think this is something you definitely need to tell your friend...you don''t owe the girl anything, but surely you owe the truth to your friend, in respect to your friendship. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author atthebay Posted August 7, 2013 Author Share Posted August 7, 2013 the thing is he really is in love with her. she is his firet true love. i dont want to be the one to destroy it i see him a lot happy when he is around her ! Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted August 8, 2013 Share Posted August 8, 2013 the thing is he really is in love with her. she is his firet true love. i dont want to be the one to destroy it i see him a lot happy when he is around her ! You won't be the one destroying their relationship. It won't be your fault. It will be her fault for doing the wrong thing and cheating on her boyfriend. Don't worry about that. I know it's hard to tell someone bad news, but I think your friend would want to know. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MercuryMorrison1 Posted August 8, 2013 Share Posted August 8, 2013 I agree...The right thing to do is to tell him, that's your responsibility as a good friend. He won't like it, hell, he might not even believe you, blind love has the tendency to cloud one's ability to comprehend logic. In the end, regardless of his initial reaction, he'll come to appreciate what you have done for him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 9, 2013 Share Posted August 9, 2013 the thing is he really is in love with her. she is his firet true love. more accurately, she is his second true love. Link to post Share on other sites
sdraw108 Posted August 9, 2013 Share Posted August 9, 2013 This shouldn't even be a debate or a struggle. Your duty as his friend is to tell him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author atthebay Posted August 10, 2013 Author Share Posted August 10, 2013 thanks you guys.. i have told him ! he didnt beleive me ofcourse !! but respecting my friendship ha confronted her and they have ended !! guess i have done the right thing !! but my friend is devastated 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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