WantanS4 Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 Weird, She would probably like it if you smacked her......... okay.. that's going a little too far No no.. but... yeah.. i'm sure the ladies here are tapping their fingers on their desks wondering if we're worth a reply Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 I was just reading the threads and Nick love ya buddy but Paris Hilton the anorexic who's skin sags? I am sorry Jlo and Charlize theron and Hale Barry are my envy! Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 Atlous, Oh crap... Charlize theron...... if you look anything like charlize... i'll take the long way around the world to meet you! Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 No, I am not saying my ex looked up to paris hilton but sure as hell her friends do most likely. I am just saying, most women probably do watch Paris Hilton and go "well hell, I got money, screw them guys" type of attitude. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 there's one of the fine ladies. If I can give my ex any credit it would be that she realizes she is wishy-washy...at least that is what she told me one time in oct when she actually somewhat put her defensive junk down. Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 I feel out of place here now you need your guys opinions more so than a womans you need a place to rant and rave about women not talk to them? I miss MJ were are you I am lost I will leave you be now have a good night Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 Originally posted by WantanS4 Weird, No no.. but... yeah.. i'm sure the ladies here are tapping their fingers on their desks wondering if we're worth a reply Ha Ha. Not at all. I just like all this male2male bonding thats goin on, its very...sweet , lol But honestly tho, I have to agree w/ a lot of the stuff u fellas have been sayin. Especially abt the magazines---Im sooo guilty!! Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 You ladies need to post. you babes are the exception to our rants;) Link to post Share on other sites
bigacesteve Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 atlous and LexiB you are exactly what we lads need, a womans view. We can pretend all we like that women are evil but you ladies have been through the exact same pathetic rubbish as us. Not heard anything from MJ for a while, I hope she got everything sorted out or found someone else. Good to hear from you girls again. Cosmopolitan: "5 ways to make better decisions in life" really funny WantanS4. Step 1: Throw stupid magazine away... Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Step 1: throw stupid magazine away Step 2: stop being shallow Step 3: Stop watching reality tv shows that are all about stuck up women Step 4: Grow the hell up Step 5: When a Guy treats you right, don't be a idiot and walk out. Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Biggie... I kid you not my friend... walk to your local newstand and check it out! High-Five Nick14...... high-five!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Urban Rubble01 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 I think that's one of the things I loved about my girl. Over the years of being with me my Anarchist/Communist beliefs have kind of rubbed off on her and now she despises things like reality shows and Cosmo. We still watch Reality Shows and Sex and the City, but only to make fun of them ! One thing that alarmed me though, last time we hung out she said she wanted some of those "Ugg" boots. Aren't those the stupid moon boots that those girls on Sex and the City wear ? Anyway, I've had a rough couple days. I'm missing her more than ever. I might have to crack and go see her next week. She's coming home for Thanksgiving but I can't wait that long. I have a question. The last 2 times we talked I've mentioned that I might be up there and told her that if I am we'll go eat and see a movie or something. So after I've told her that stuff I realize that I might just try and wait until Thanksgiving to see her. What I'm wondering is, do you think she might feel like I'm blowing her off or something ? I mean, she isn't overly eager in trying to get me to come up, but when she hears I'll be around she definitely seems like she wants to see me. So if I don't end up going up there this week should I call her and tell her I'm not coming ? We didn't have anything set in stone but I don't want her to feel like I'm being unreliable. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Nick, beautiful list son:) Link to post Share on other sites
Nick14 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Well Steps 4 and 5 apply to my ex...but then again, ugh...either way it doesn't change anything. Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 All of a sudden... this has turned into the woman bashing forum..... Referencing Urban Rubble01's comment on the Ugg boots...... we as men, forget just how influential woman are on each other. They're naturally like little kids... when they see something someone else is wearing/has... they want it too......... even though it might not suit them in any means. That's one thing that perplexs me about the species........ they are in someways self destructive and set themselves up for criticism which leads to their 'feelings' getting hurt. Now, dont' take me wrong, I enjoy this aspect of women, but I just wish they realized that some of the things they do just begs for CONSTRUCTIVE criticism and being so, THEY SHOULD SHRUGG IT OFF OR LAUGH IT OFF when it comes around. But I guess that's only a dream, and they'll never get it... and if they do, they're in their 40s/50s and way past their physical prime. Wait... I just thought of something........ women menopause between the ages of 45&55 I think.... so..... is it a horomonial thing? Who knows....... maybe atlous does Anyway....... your thoughts............... I've come to conclude from the breakup that I need an emotional more mature/stronger woman who declines to surrender to the influence of her peers. Link to post Share on other sites
djones Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Hey Guys/Gals, Hows everyone doing? I have been away for a awhile, I was sick as a dog and just did not get out of bed to do anything...I am feeling a little better today....That new girl has been calling me, we chat, she can talk my ear off on the phone...its ok my ex and i used to do that...but I still dont know how i feel about this new girl....she has asked me out for drinks tis weekend so I said sure and then she asked if I wanted to go dancing, I was taken back by it, I told her we will see how the night goes....Other than that my ex and I still talk once in a while she called me a couple of days ago just to say hey and chit chat for a bit...it was nice, I still enjoy talking to her, I think I still more in common with my ex than this new girl...so I dont know what will happen, I'll just play it out and see...How are you all doing? anyone has gone out on a date or just started to look around....I tell you its hard to get back on the "saddle" so to speak....I dont know if I am ready, but I guess you never are....take care Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 My ex IM'ed me last night 3 days after she got all pissy at me for me merely bringing up a point. She left some messages last night but I was not at my comp all night and when I got back to my comp she signed off for the night. Naturally she will prolly take this to mean I was ignoring her rather than I was busy doing other sheeet. hehe Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 You know... I've been thinking......... I really don't want to see my ex ever again...... and if I do, I hope it hurts her to see me......... I wanted her back...... now that I think about what's gone on between us... and about how they say that women usually leave the relationship emotionally a long time earlier than when they leave it physically............. I hope that everything that I have felt, and thought happens to her sometime in her life. Not because I want it to hurt...... but just so that she can understand what she's done. Dumb b!tch......... wanting what everyone one around her supposedly has/wants........... and *****ing me over............ i think a taste of this is what is in order........... and the way guys are these days......... it will........ and no I won't have compassion.... but apathy... Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Seriously in response to u Nick I believe that most of these men have been with immature women. They are confused at what they want because may be they are not happy with themselves so they are always looking elsewhere they are at risk for eternal unhappiness with these immature coping mechanisms. But, I have seen girls that are 21 or 22 that are completely in love and end up marrying their men before the age of 25. That is the whole college of nursing. What you all have to realize is that they will find happiness in the honeymoon phase and then history will ultimatley repeat itself it has nothing to do with what kind of guys you are. They are not ready for dudes of your status. When they are they will crawl back and you will have all moved on. They are not happy for themselves. Instead of feeling angry feel lucky that you will not be hurt by them and that you are stronger. Feel sorry for them that they behave that way. Know that if you take time to heal you will be 100% better off. No it doesn't involve a woman in her 40's to be happy just a mature one that is full of self confidence. Women can also smell the aura of a man with confidence it is vrey attractive. So realize that you are all healthy men that have taken the time to heal and go through the emotions. For our EXs who have bounced on to another and have not taken this time will fall into the consequetial distruction of thier old feelings that have some to haunt them and this my friends would be torture. We will never experience this torture EVER because we have dealt with this in a healthy way and we are already healing they are not! Feel bad for them serious they are not special they are messed up and you can be if they can treat you this way what would be in store for your relationship if you had not taken a break and allowed them to see themselves for who they really are. This may take time and time my friends is all we have. We coul die tommorow for sheet sakes pull your arses up and smile and you will have chicks all over ya and when you least expect it you will find your exs lurking in the seas of women that want you! You are all ver intelligent guys who honeslty deserve the benefit of the doubt. There are women out there( like me) who desperatly want the same things as you guys. Your Bud Atous Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 Can you tell that I need to take a spelling course or what! Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 I meant a typing course! JEEEEZ my brain is fried! Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 11, 2004 Share Posted November 11, 2004 lets clone atlous a few times:) Wantan, haha yep. It will be sweet when your ex experiences all that stuff and comes crying back to you in hope that you will have magically forgot what she did to you. You try and help someone and they tell you to screw off. When they finally realize what you were saying is true after they experience it they come crying back to you. So funny. This isn't of course just with females or even ex partners...this is with humans as a whole. My best friend started dating some useless cunt in late 2002 and during the relationship he sorta shafted me and I gave him warnings on how to go about the realtionship so he would not end up screwed in the end. Naturally earlier this year they broke up and he came back to me telling me I was right (he went into some heavy debt from the relationship) and apologized for shafting me for her in the way he did. I coudl have easily todl him to screw off but I forgave him and now we are cool again. Hopefully he has leaned his lesson and wont repeat this if/when he gets invovled with another woman. Link to post Share on other sites
crazydawg Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 atlous, to bad your an old lady, maybe you could ahad a chance to keep up with me =) Link to post Share on other sites
WantanS4 Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Uggh... crazy.... she's not that old... she's 27. Link to post Share on other sites
atlous Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 OLD LADY! hgummm I am 27 and I'll bet a million dollars that you could not keep up with me. I skate twice a week and I am full of muscle! I am lady too please do not mistake me for a butch and so what if I was old what was the to bad about??? huh? huh? Bring it LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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