smile1983 Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 I have decided that if I cannot get the courage to talk to the guy I like I am just going to move on. It has been a few days since I decided this and I still think about him sometimes when we have to work together. Sometimes I will find myself looking at him or I'll hear him laugh and I'll smile but I think that moving on will be good for me. I cannot bring myself to talk to him no matter how long I rehearse and I am almost certain that he doesn't like me back so... does anyone have any tips that will help me get over him faster? Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 Take a chance and see what happens; that'll be a surefire way to get over him faster. Either you'll date or he'll reject you and you won't want to see him at all after that. Hence, you should take a chance and talk to him. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author smile1983 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Share Posted August 10, 2013 Easy for you to say. I have tried talking to him before. I can even have something completely in common with him, watch the same show, for instance, and I won't be able to say word one to him. We have at least two friends in common and I can never talk to him about them either. We used to talk, I remember having conversations with him before but all that changed when I started liking him, when I became available to be hurt. The only thing I can even talk to him about without working up the courage for my entire shift is work itself. Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 Then take the easy route and don't talk to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author smile1983 Posted August 11, 2013 Author Share Posted August 11, 2013 I think rejection only poses more questions and it doesn't necessarily make you dislike or get over someone faster. Sometimes it just makes you wonder why. It has been a long time since I was rejected by someone I wanted to go out with but I still remember how it feels. Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 I think rejection only poses more questions and it doesn't necessarily make you dislike or get over someone faster. Sometimes it just makes you wonder why. It has been a long time since I was rejected by someone I wanted to go out with but I still remember how it feels. So you'd rather be safe than sorry? Gotcha Link to post Share on other sites
fireb3nder Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 You'll never know unless u try first. Be friendly, funny and be yourself. If he doesn't like u back that way, well, at least u know. And its his loss. Move on. But u gotta try first.Best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
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