MissingHerBad Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I have been pulling the no contact thing but once and a while something comes along (usually her coming on MSN). I know most of our stories out there are all similar. So I ask this. It has only been a month and I know that this girls still have feelings (whether love or anger) but she still has a tendancy to be rude and sarcastic. I love this girl to death but I accept that things are over. I still hope oneday she will realize but Im not holding my breathe. Why does she insist on being rude a sarcastic as if she has totally changed. Example::How are you? Peachy... Whats new? Everything... and so on and so on, then she gets mad at me cause she said something on msn and I wasnt by the computer and blocks me. Is this a sign of huge resentment? Is this a sign that it is over for good? Is this a sign that she still loves me? Should I cut off alllllll contact? Link to post Share on other sites
hugznkisses21 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 It seems like she is looking for you to come crawling back to her....it seems she is looking for attention. My advice...dont give it to her..AT ALL You dont need that....go on with your life...be happy. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 I recommend a serious talk with her, aks her what´s going on and that you expect some respect and politeness and not this kind of bitching around. If she doesn´t understand it, she´s really too immature or too mean and then it´s time to leave. Give her the benefit of doubt, try to understand her and talk with her, but then if it doesn´t work out, don´t let yourself mistreated from an ex. You deserve better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author MissingHerBad Posted November 5, 2004 Author Share Posted November 5, 2004 Unfortunately I have already tried to talk to her. She doesnt seem much like talking about our relationship. Its all very confusing. She feels alot of resentment to me...I know she does even though she sais she doesnt. I am going to leave it alone for now however next week is her bday and I would like to send her a card...Will that be appropriate or should I ditch the girl already. I love her and it feels like she still loves me but is it to late... Link to post Share on other sites
krbshappy71 Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Too much drama for me. Ditch. People who play games aren't mature enough to handle the real deal anyhow. Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted November 5, 2004 Share Posted November 5, 2004 Ditto! Why bother wastin gso much time and energy on someone who obviously likes you reel you in (like a fish caught on a hook) and then throw you back? You think playing games is a real relationship? Go and talk to your mother. She will tell it like it is. Your Mother would probably gladly tell you what she as a young girl expected from a young a man who was interested in her and I am sure she will also gladly teacy you what is acceptable and unacceptable. Don't think that this girl is ready. Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
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