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canuckprincess
Did you lie him about sleeping with another man?

 

If I were to have slept with another man I most certainly would have told him. I however haven't slept with others, I don't cheat.

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Joan of Arc... Interesting username.

 

I still don't understand what happened here. There are two M couples and the H in M1 is/was having an A with the W in M2? Now the W in M1 is talking with the H in M2. Am I right? Let's call her W1. W1 has started concocting stories about W2 (you?) and is telling both H1 (her H) and H2, your H these lies. Meanwhile you (W2) are getting a D.

 

Did you say W1 and H1 are reconciling? If they are, how do you know what she is telling her H? Is it your H who is telling you what she says? If it is then you must realize that your H is angry and has his own agenda. Unless you are sure she is talking about you to her H, then it is best to try not give it too much thought.

 

Are you NC with your AP, H1? (This is beginning to feel like a maths problem!::rolleyes:)

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If I were to have slept with another man I most certainly would have told him. I however haven't slept with others, I don't cheat.

 

 

Though you will lower your morals and bang married men.:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

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canuckprincess
Though you will lower your morals and bang married men.:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Yes I will! Oh no are you the morale police lol

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Joan of Arc... Interesting username.

 

I still don't understand what happened here. There are two M couples and the H in M1 is/was having an A with the W in M2? Now the W in M1 is talking with the H in M2. Am I right? Let's call her W1. W1 has started concocting stories about W2 (you?) and is telling both H1 (her H) and H2, your H these lies. Meanwhile you (W2) are getting a D.

 

Did you say W1 and H1 are reconciling? If they are, how do you know what she is telling her H? Is it your H who is telling you what she says? If it is then you must realize that your H is angry and has his own agenda. Unless you are sure she is talking about you to her H, then it is best to try not give it too much thought.

 

Are you NC with your AP, H1? (This is beginning to feel like a maths problem!::rolleyes:)

almost got it... W1 telling stories to H1 about me saying H2 told her & to H2 about H1, which are all untrue. W1 & H2 dont know that all the back and forth is getting repeated. The A continues.

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Good for you!! Now just focus on that and forge ahead.

Lies heaped on lies just lead to one giant pile of sh$t, for Everyone.

Hang in there, turn away from Anything you "hear" BW saying. It may just slow you down from the authentic, open & honest life I believe you may want to live*

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