maersk Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 I am new to the online posting scene! I am hoping that I will get some good advice, I suck when it comes to the beginning of a new relationship! This is my first post so I am assuming it will be kind of long. I met this guy online, wow right?! we both happened to sign up because we wanted to try something new. we started dating in February of this year and he has been away most of the time we have been together. As far as I know, we are exclusive. Anyway, I only see him 2-3 times in two months when he is away, and since we have been dating his 6 weeks home got cut down to 2... we have went on two dates and hung out multiple times relaxing at home together. My question is, since he is gone so often, is it really such a bad thing that when we do see each other we spend most of our time "in bed" ? Link to post Share on other sites
keithkat Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 IMO, there's nothing wrong as long as you feel like doing it and your relationship is not all about that. :-) It would be better if there's another kind of attraction aside from what you can do in the bed. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 18, 2013 Share Posted August 18, 2013 You definitely need to know more about this guy and what he wants out of this relationship. You should be part of his life even when he's gone. If he exists only when he's with you in person twice a month, then something's off. Are you free to call him any time day or night? If you two are exclusive, then that would be the case... Link to post Share on other sites
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