Misfortune Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 I beat myself up over letting it go on so long. At first it was the usual excuses I bought into. Then, life happens and time drags on such as a terminal illness in his family, his minor surgery in year three. Always waiting for the right time. My advise to anyone is there is never a best time. Just get on with life. I did talk a lot at first and said even if there was some kind of affectionate touching, anything at all would at least make me feel wanted. Nah, nothing. I had no outlet, was always faithful if for no other reason I just didn't want to mess up my head with more cobwebs than the rejection put in there. Someone told me the 50s can be the best years of your life! That is encouraging. Gwarsh! 13teen years?! Not a single "right time"? If everyone had your resilience and patience these forums wouldn't be around. He has to be getting some perk from being with you for him to also stay with the marriage in such a state. This isn't karma as you said earlier; this is....idek. The sex isn't low, it's nonexistent. Enjoy your 50s Link to post Share on other sites
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