StillHurtin Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 My sister called and told me about her night out. . Anyhow, she went out to the bar last night to see some friends. She told me a couple we know were there and the guy hit on her. This couple have a marriage of convienance. She sleeps around on him, and he sleeps around on her. They only stayed married b/c of the children. Anyhow, so we were talking about it and after I got off the phone dh was giving me the evil eye. He asked me what guy I was talking about. So I told him the story. He asked me how I knew this guy blah, blah, blah. I felt like I was being questioned. I felt like he didn't trust me that I wasn't involved w/ this man or want to be. I wasn't happy w/ his attitude. I told my sister she should of called me up and I would of went out w/ her b/c she went alone. Right when I said that dh started glaring at me and having a pi$$ed off look on his face! Dh has NEVER trusted me, since day one BUT I have always trusted him since I met him almost 14 years ago. I have given him NO reason to not trust me. Just b/c I have had several lovers in my past b4 him doesn't give him an excuse to not trust me. He says he doesn't trust me b/c he feels I am too good for him and he is worried I will find someone better. If anyone shouldn't trust anyone it's ME not trusting HIM!!! He was the one that had an affair while we were seperated. I had no intentions of meeting another man letting alone sleeping w/ another. He makes me so damn mad! I don't know how much longer this marriage can last if he can't trust me. It really ticks me off! I was the victim, the innocent one w/ his affair and here I am the one who still can't be trusted. WTF is up w/ that? Link to post Share on other sites
The_Analyzer Posted November 6, 2004 Share Posted November 6, 2004 Sounds to me like his attitude could be one of 2 things. Either he is just plain insecure or he is doing something he shouldn't be and transferring what his actions have been over onto you. Could be too if he felt any guilt from the affair he had when you all were seperated, it may stem from that as well. He needs to work on himself and get his insecurites in check. Good luck. Just my 2 cents. Link to post Share on other sites
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