cseven Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 hey everyone, i've fallen into a situation that i have never had to deal with, and thats another man's woman .......so im really not sure what to do. last wed's night i meet this person at a friends place and we clicked reallly well and one thing led to another lets just say things got a little steamy but the problem is she has been in a 3 month relationship with someone and so she put the brakes on when guilt set in i guess...there is problems there with her and her man and the way i see it they have to be substancial problems if shes willing to be with another man in a sexual manner....of cource a day latter i hear that something has come out (dont know what was said) and that her man has given her another chance. but i cant get her out of my head and i feel guilty if i butt into her life ..i dont want to be the reason for her brake up but i cant deny the fact that i cant get her out of my head ....the other thing is i really dont know what effect i've had on her without upsetting her relationship ......i'm reallly really confused i guess i was just hopping that someone has gone thru something similiar ..and could give me some advise in what i should do .... thanks Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 ...... stay away from her until she's single. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate ...... stay away from her until she's single. Got to second that! Honestly it will be more heartache than you want at this point.. Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 I concur! Stay away until she's left her relationship. You being in the picture will just make things more confusing and won't help her one bit. Link to post Share on other sites
StillHurtin Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 I agree, stay away until she is single. If she ends up marrying this guy then it wasn't meant to be for you two. Link to post Share on other sites
2Confuzed Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 I agree also. She is where she is because she chooses to be. If things aren't working out for her and her man, then she needs to deal with that. If you're involved in the situation, it will only fog her judgement. I suggest staying out of it until she makes a decision. In the long run, it will save you a lot of grief. Believe me, I talk from experience...if only I had taken my own advice. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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