Don't know what direction to turn.

[wildcountry33]

I really don't know what to do any more. A little background on my wife and I, met 6 years ago, dated for year and a half, split for a little over a year, got back together. Married for almost three years now. We had a beautiful daughter in Feb. which she already had a daughter and didn't want another but oops.

 

Our problem is there is absolutely no intimacy in our relationship. We haven't been physical in almost a year. When I bring this up and try to get answers and try to work on things I get answers from from she is mad we had a baby to she just doesn't feel like it and anything and everything in between. I have told her that this is a big deal to me and I get I will try. Nothing changes.

 

Everything she nags me about that didn't used to bother me starts huge fights. Fighting is all we really seem to do anymore. I know I am supposed to be married to my best friend but anymore I don't even like talking to her or being around her.

 

I just don't know what to do anymore.

[justpassingthrough]

How about birth control? Is that figured out?

[wildcountry33]

Tubes tied after she had our daughter so no birth control.

[Mr. Lucky]

Everything she nags me about that didn't used to bother me starts huge fights. Fighting is all we really seem to do anymore. I know I am supposed to be married to my best friend but anymore I don't even like talking to her or being around her.

 

I just don't know what to do anymore.

Marriage counseling is your best (and maybe only) hope. Have you discussed it with her? Is she open to it? A spouse that completely denies you sex and won't do anything about the issue is making a pretty clear statement. And it's not "I love you"...

 

Mr. Lucky