Prettyinblack Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 I think I just need to vent here. My b/f and I have been together for 3 years and the topic of living together consistently comes up. I told him on his birthday in September that I wanted to discuss this (the living together thing) and he said "it always boils down to the same issue with us. And it does. ... Everything is great between us....neither have children or will have children, there are no exes banging on the door, no in laws/out laws, no big financial difficulties...just the committment issue. I told him on his birthday that I wasn't planning on making a career out of dating him and that I wasn't going to date him for the next ten years yada, yada, yada. Well, he got that 'deer in the headlight look' and I thought to myself, "good.....he's finally got the message." We are still together.....lolol. But I am acting differently now with him.. I think to myself, 'mister, you can't have your cake and eat it too.....it's a great deal for somebody, but that somebody ain't me!' So, now, I am not sitting at home waiting for the phone to ring and I am not being so available. I have booked a trip to Cuba leaving next week and my man isn't saying much at all! Very quiet........ and I think that I am doing the right thing. He mentioned about 'how much house ' we can afford this week but I'm still not too sure if things are moving. Any comments or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I love this man with all my heart.....But do women have to play hard ball to get what they want?????? urgh! Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted November 7, 2004 Share Posted November 7, 2004 It sounds to me like you're doing the right thing and I don't think it's playing hard-ball. Why settle for less when you don't have to? Link to post Share on other sites
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