onyxdacat Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 He and i have been together over 2 years, exclusive for most of that. Within a month of meeting, he had met most of my family (kinda accidental, but...). At the holidays, I asked to meet his family, he said he wasn't ready. I was hurt, but 6-7 months can be too soon. Easter, he met the rest of my family. At our one year mark, I again asked to meet his family. He tells me no. Says "its not you, its me". Then says he doesn’t wanna break up, but he isn't ready for a serious relationship. I was astounded to be sure. It was HIS idea that we be exclusive. I was dating 3 others when we first met. So for the last year and some i have been in this limbo. Not in a relationship, not single. And I haven't had sex in what feels like forever. I refuse to have sex with Mr. Wishy-Washy. He is still giving me bologna answers to my inquiries abt meeting his family. He lives with his mother and stepfather. (He is 44, I am 37). He tells me they have a great relationship. He tells me he is not hiding me, but I can't quite believe that. I have tried being understanding and patient. Nothing. I have tried confrontation. Nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 This is a big giant red flag. Move on" Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 So could he be married? Link to post Share on other sites
PlumPrincess Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 44, lives with his parents, doesn't want to introduce you to them, doesn't want a serious relationship with you. What would you tell your friends if they told you they were in that situation? Link to post Share on other sites
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