Juestme Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 Here is a Question I have about online affairs. What actually is an affair to the court system? My wife filed for a no fault divorce, she has meet this guy online 5 mnths ago and says nothing is going on between them they are just friends but I have phone records of how much they talked and have over 500 text messages per month between them two. He lives in like ten states away, but I feel that still does not make it ok since we still married for now. Till this day she says she still loves me and says over and over that nothing is going on between them two. The other question is has anyone dealt with this before and made it through still married or even if you did not what happened and what insight can you give. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 What she is doing is not OK. She is having an emotional affair with another man. It doesn't matter what the courts think of it - that's what it is. However I suspect you're asking has more to do with the terms & meaning of a "no fault" divorce & you'd probably do better to speak to a lawyer about that. Personally I have never been through something like what you're describing here but I imagine that if I was I would believe that my partner was cheating. How I would deal with that would depend on a lot of things. Till this day she says she still loves me and says over and over that nothing is going on between them two. But she's already filed for divorce. Is there still room to save your marriage? Link to post Share on other sites
Ladyjane14 Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 Read some posts by Owl in the infidelity section. His situation was remarkable similar to yours. Mine was too, to some degree. The difference being that my spouse did not really want a divorce. If you haven't seen an attorney yet, you might consider it. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 It's in your best interest to secure an attorney of your own and present them with whatever evidence you think may you have. It may help your case in the event she tries to obtain additional spousal support (alimony) over and above any property settlement she may be entitled to. It depends on the laws in your particular state. Whatever you do…don't put your signature on ANYTHING until you've had your own lawyer look it over! Link to post Share on other sites
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