The Game

[vla1120]

I would like to think that after my experiences with my STBX, I will move forward with my eyes wide open. I will pay attention to my intuition, which I often ignored early in the relationship because I loved him enough to do anything to make it work. I changed myself to fit his expectations. That's what we do when we love someone and want to stay married, right? We make huge sacrifices for the sake of the marriage. (Well, maybe not the smart ones....)

 

What I now know is that it shouldn't be that hard. I shouldn't have to change. He shouldn't have to change. If you want to equate relationships to playing a game, then I think it is as simple as making sure you're playing the right game with the right game pieces. If you are a "Monopoly" piece (I'm always the car!) and he/she is a "Sorry" game piece, immediately discard him/her and wait until you find another Monopoly game piece to play the game of Monopoly. Tell that Sorry game piece to go play that Sorry game with all the other Sorry-assed game pieces.

 

I'll never try to fit a square peg into a round hole again.

[M30USA]

Rev,

 

You mentioned Jesus' anger. This is one thing that the modern church rarely discusses. His wrath is going to be so devastating and thorough that it even scares me as a believer who is under his mercy. This world will be utterly consumed and destroyed at his return. People need to hear this and not some marshmallow feel-good fairy tale.

[revitup]

M30USA,

 

The church where I was on day one of my life (mom was Native American-they ran you out of the hospital quickly for that reason alone) is not the same church as I was brought up knowing.As you say,they don't mention the anger of Jesus as being good.It was! Anger is a natural human emotion,it can be very useful if controlled and used for the right reasons.

 

God is a killer,I read where he killed many for the good of the masses,God even killed a man's wife (preacher) with a stroke.This was after God told the preacher the day before, that "tomorrow" I will take your wife with a stroke!God did this in order to show the man that God is a jealous God and will not have anyone or anything come before him.....even the man's wife!

 

He also said it would be better to live in a house with a Lion- than with a nagging and complaining woman! LS posters take notice!

 

REVITUP

[WreckedDan]

Not going there with the religious discussion, but...

 

I had a conversation the other day with someone who goes to protests and such about this whole Montesano garbage everyone is upset about lately. She asked why I didn't go and stand up for what I thought was right. I sugested that if everyone who realy felt they cared about how things were going down to donate 100 bucks into a big lot, take all that money and give it to someine who can change things. The game has rules, all games do. You either play by them by the rules that are in place, or you convince yourself you can play without them. Sadly not much gets done in the latter option.

 

Buzzed, talkin out my ass,

Dan

[revitup]

VLA,

 

It's not the game that really gets to us,it's the lack of the rules....upfront! Yes you should have given all you had,you (like me and others here) just picked the wrong one to do it for.As they told me about my golf swing (I don't play) Lots of postage but no address!

 

If we all knew their "rules" before the game started,we would play with someone else.What these people- "wayward ones" do is change the rules as they go along and have different rules for themselves than they do for us.

 

If we start to cross the finish line-they move it!

 

We think we have found our "cheerleader" and later find we are with a "bookie" who has rigged the game from the beginning.Or like some of us, our player is "off-sides" with the other team!

 

REVITUP

[Meatballsmom]

Moving the finish line, dumpee / dumper, my Ex used similar terms.

 

We had two teenage kids and later a grand child in common. For the kids sake at times I tried to be civil. And every time in his mind he would twist it around to us getting together, then use similar terms, I was playing games with him.

 

There was no game, there was no more us.

 

Be careful with your thought process. He is the one who brought over the divorce papers for me to sign. We were divorced for over 20 years before the booze claimed him. He never accepted that I was no longer his property. Years after the divorce I found the guy I am with and have been with for 2 decades. In my Ex's mind I was cheating on him.

[hurts_so_bad]

After my breakup a year and a half ago I was a total mess! Mess of brain chatter that only consisted of how I could get her back, How I should act, what tricks to play, etc, etc, I watched countless BS videos and even bought a few BS systems that tell you to act this way or that way..

 

Ive been going to counseling for a while and thats helped minimal... I always had in my head that there must be something I am doing wrong because I wasnt getting my ex back..So I basically tried everything...From being nice to not answering her texts, etc.. Nothing worked!

 

I have slowed down a bit as of late and cleared some of the cobwebs from my head and realized that my confusion of not knowing what the right thing to do was, Was hurting and confusing me more then the breakup itself!

 

So I started searching my head for answers and I came to the conclusion that there just has to be some way of being or a philosophy that you can follow in situations with people (whether it be a friend neighbor lover whatever) that would work for you and give you all the answers you need without the confusion of playing games.. If you have that motto and use it there is no game just who you are and what you stand for...

 

I have been picking my brain for hours on end for the past few weeks in search of this motto, philosophy or whatever you want to call it to live by that would give me the answers I need, and here is what I came up with today.......

 

 

TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED!

GIVE ALL TO SOME, SOME TO SOME, NONE TO SOME...

 

Simple as that! I had all these other sayings, treat people the way you want to be treated but treat them how they treat you, be authentic, say what you mean mean what you say, if thats not good enough walk away..etc..

 

They all had flaws to me...For instance...the last one I mentioned..If thats not good enough walk away..Well anybody can tell you how easy it is to walk away but thats a bunch of BS and we all know it! Its not that easy to walk away from someone you were with 20 years if its someone you care about being it a neighbor,lover or whoever...

 

What if they come back to you weeks later and are nice to you again? We all have some sort of forgivness in us and I for one am not the type of person to just drop people from my world forever if they treated me wrong...

 

 

So I just decided to treat people how they deserve to be treated...Even so you may have hurt me I will treat you with respect if you treat me with respect later on down the road.. BUT only as much respect as you deserve from me..Nothing more... Respect is earned

 

Give all to some, some to some, and none to some..In other words people who I can honestly trust, do the right thing by me, and treat me right, Get all of my respect and trust.. The people who have hurt me or are sort of fair weather friends who can be Aholes at times I give some but not all, and keep them at arms distance! the others where there is no hope I give nothing!

 

 

Some may say well it seems like alot of work but its really not if your in touch with your feelings and recognize who isnt treating you right..If you do you just treat them how they deserve to be treated...

 

Some may still break this down and say its a game but its not a game if its who you are or make yourself to be....

 

A few of you may know my situation with my ex...How she recently made a date with me and broke it..I was all upset and rightfully so..Some people said, well give her another chance the excuse may be legit while others said leave her be for 6 months without a word!

 

Right or wrong in others eyes...Ive decided that this is what I am going to do with my new found philosophy...I am going to give her another chance being she did say she was sorry, I know she is forgetful and I know for sure she did have a crazy weekend that weekend..

 

However, If she cancels again..She is going to be told and kept at arms distance with very little contact only about the kids...Or if she waits too long to ask for a date I am going to refuse cause if you want to see me you wouldnt wait that long! Then I know at that point I have to keep her at arms distance as she deserves to be treated..

 

This is my new found philosophy and what I believe will work for me..I need it to keep my head straight and give me the answers I need instead of constantly worrying if I am doing the right thing!

 

I know many will not agree with it but I do hope that some will and get something from it and apply it to their life...

 

I as many of others are tired of worrying what the next move is in a game to win the acceptance of someone else is..Maybe its not me that needs to change maybe its been them the whole time..The only thing I need to change is how I treat them!

Edited August 22, 2013 by hurts_so_bad

[hayewils]

After my breakup a year and a half ago I was a total mess! Mess of brain chatter that only consisted of how I could get her back, How I should act, what tricks to play, etc, etc, I watched countless BS videos and even bought a few BS systems that tell you to act this way or that way..

 

Ive been going to counseling for a while and thats helped minimal... I always had in my head that there must be something I am doing wrong because I wasnt getting my ex back..So I basically tried everything...From being nice to not answering her texts, etc.. Nothing worked!

 

I have slowed down a bit as of late and cleared some of the cobwebs from my head and realized that my confusion of not knowing what the right thing to do was, Was hurting and confusing me more then the breakup itself!

 

So I started searching my head for answers and I came to the conclusion that there just has to be some way of being or a philosophy that you can follow in situations with people (whether it be a friend neighbor lover whatever) that would work for you and give you all the answers you need without the confusion of playing games.. If you have that motto and use it there is no game just who you are and what you stand for...

 

I have been picking my brain for hours on end for the past few weeks in search of this motto, philosophy or whatever you want to call it to live by that would give me the answers I need, and here is what I came up with today.......

 

 

TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY DESERVE TO BE TREATED!

GIVE ALL TO SOME, SOME TO SOME, NONE TO SOME...

 

Simple as that! I had all these other sayings, treat people the way you want to be treated but treat them how they treat you, be authentic, say what you mean mean what you say, if thats not good enough walk away..etc..

 

They all had flaws to me...For instance...the last one I mentioned..If thats not good enough walk away..Well anybody can tell you how easy it is to walk away but thats a bunch of BS and we all know it! Its not that easy to walk away from someone you were with 20 years if its someone you care about being it a neighbor,lover or whoever...

 

What if they come back to you weeks later and are nice to you again? We all have some sort of forgivness in us and I for one am not the type of person to just drop people from my world forever if they treated me wrong...

 

 

So I just decided to treat people how they deserve to be treated...Even so you may have hurt me I will treat you with respect if you treat me with respect later on down the road.. BUT only as much respect as you deserve from me..Nothing more... Respect is earned

 

Give all to some, some to some, and none to some..In other words people who I can honestly trust, do the right thing by me, and treat me right, Get all of my respect and trust.. The people who have hurt me or are sort of fair weather friends who can be Aholes at times I give some but not all, and keep them at arms distance! the others where there is no hope I give nothing!

 

 

Some may say well it seems like alot of work but its really not if your in touch with your feelings and recognize who isnt treating you right..If you do you just treat them how they deserve to be treated...

 

Some may still break this down and say its a game but its not a game if its who you are or make yourself to be....

 

A few of you may know my situation with my ex...How she recently made a date with me and broke it..I was all upset and rightfully so..Some people said, well give her another chance the excuse may be legit while others said leave her be for 6 months without a word!

 

Right or wrong in others eyes...Ive decided that this is what I am going to do with my new found philosophy...I am going to give her another chance being she did say she was sorry, I know she is forgetful and I know for sure she did have a crazy weekend that weekend..

 

However, If she cancels again..She is going to be told and kept at arms distance with very little contact only about the kids...Or if she waits too long to ask for a date I am going to refuse cause if you want to see me you wouldnt wait that long! Then I know at that point I have to keep her at arms distance as she deserves to be treated..

 

This is my new found philosophy and what I believe will work for me..I need it to keep my head straight and give me the answers I need instead of constantly worrying if I am doing the right thing!

 

I know many will not agree with it but I do hope that some will and get something from it and apply it to their life...

 

I as many of others are tired of worrying what the next move is in a game to win the acceptance of someone else is..Maybe its not me that needs to change maybe its been them the whole time..The only thing I need to change is how I treat them!

 

This is a good example of what I have been trying to explain, getting caught up in lifes games... you don't realize it till ,,, NOW!!

We become game show hosts.. unfortunately, we love out SO so damn much, we are willing to do whatever it takes to get them back in our lives..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts hurts..

 

By the way, my philosophy has been pretty close to yours...

 

mine has always been, treat people the way YOU like to be treated,

It produces the best results...

 

Scott

[hurts_so_bad]

This is a good example of what I have been trying to explain, getting caught up in lifes games... you don't realize it till ,,, NOW!!

We become game show hosts.. unfortunately, we love out SO so damn much, we are willing to do whatever it takes to get them back in our lives..

Thanks for sharing your thoughts hurts..

 

By the way, my philosophy has been pretty close to yours...

 

mine has always been, treat people the way YOU like to be treated,

It produces the best results...

 

Scott

 

Im glad you liked it and I certainly hope it can help others..You will have some that knock it down but thats their opinion and they are entitled to it..

I have used that same motto you do and said it in a few of my posts..The only problem with it is you cant always go with it with all people..Some people do not deserve it! Initially I will treat most people that way till they give me reason not too..When they give me reason not too, depending on how important they are in my life I will either keep them at arms distance or just drop em all together...

 

Some people are worthy of your full friendship and trust others arent..That doesnt mean that we cant be friends with them..It only means that there is a certain closeness or trust you will not share with them as you would with someone who you give your all too..

 

Maybe I got it wrong about the new craze of being authentic..It appears to me that the definition of that is being open and real with everyone but if it someone hurts you you drop them completely out of your life..

 

That idea to me is flawed..If you live your life like that you will make a lot of friends but end up with none! Cause somewhere along the line someone is going to do something to hurt you in some way shape or form...

 

Id rather give the person the benfit of the doubt and keeps them at arms distance till maybe one day they earn my trust and friendship again..Even if they dont, Id rather have a friend that I keep at arms distance then none at all!

[2.50 a gallon]

h-s-b / hayewils, et al

 

The only problem with your Golden Rule philosophy is that it will leave you in the dust in the Mating Game.

 

Whether we like it or not, dating, wooing women is a very competitive sport.

 

Yes a game.

 

A game of flirting, sometimes deceiving, teasing, romancing is what most women want.

 

Unless you are a bad boy, going up to a woman and being honest that you want to bed her will get you zilch.

[revitup]

Back in the day-I would walk into a bar and pick a pretty girl (they never get hit on btw) and say " I'm here for a good time not for a long time,would you like to get laid?"

 

I will tell you it worked,it also led to the nightmare 18 years later that I now type about here!

 

REVITUP

[hurts_so_bad]

h-s-b / hayewils, et al

 

The only problem with your Golden Rule philosophy is that it will leave you in the dust in the Mating Game.

 

Whether we like it or not, dating, wooing women is a very competitive sport.

 

Yes a game.

 

A game of flirting, sometimes deceiving, teasing, romancing is what most women want.

 

Unless you are a bad boy, going up to a woman and being honest that you want to bed her will get you zilch.

 

I personally dont believe its a game.. I NEVER had a problem meeting or dating women with being just who I am...

 

No one ever said anything about not flirting or wooing to begin with..I flirt, woo, tease, etc with women..Who doesnt? But I am not going to do it with women who dont want it from me...

 

 

All I said was to treat people the way they deserve to be treated..Its not meant to be harsh with people at all....I think its pretty universal and i dont see how that will leave me in the dust with dating..

 

If I like a girl and she likes me theres mutual feelings.. If there is not and she has no interest I am going to treat her the way she deserves and I deserve..I will leave her be and keep my pride..Im not going to continue trying to woo and flirt with her! Not onlly will I look like an ass but I will look desperate!

 

We are who we are... bottom line..There are women who like different things..Some women like quiet guys, some women like aholes, some women like to be wooed, Some women like to take care of their men, Some women like to be drowned with attention while others are independant and dont want a guy constantly up their @ss, Some women like bad boys, The list goes on..Thats why some men and women are matches and others arent..

 

Unless your a player who feels the need to bang anything (and I mean anything) out there to make himself feel like a man there is no reason to be anyone but yourself..I dont consider and never will consider myself a player cause I am better then that and have morals and standards...I will not go out and tell any women what she wants to hear just to get down her pants and I will not bang just any pig I come across just to say I got laid like most players will..

 

It amazes me how so many men feel the need to be a player! I did for a while and got over it once I realized what a player really is....We get this idea in our head that these are guys that can pick up ANY women and make her fall in love with him...Truth is players are lowlifes who cannot pick up ANY women! MOst of them pick up women that are desperate..So they use the hell out of them and dump them..The real reason she fell in love to begin with wasnt because he was so great..Its because she is desperate and feels she cant find anyone else! So in short they are bottom feeders nothing more!

 

I got off topic sorry! Enough with the player BS..getting on to what I was saying...

 

I am not going to spend any more time out of my life trying to be a certain way because the dating game says I have to be a certain way

 

Going threw life constantly trying to change yourself to be someone that the dating world demands or anything else for that matter is a waste of energy that will cause you to never get out of your head! Trust me! I havent been out of my head for a year and a half! I finally feel free now and realized I was wasting my time and at the same time not seeing the world in front of me (living in the now) because I was so pre occupied with what I need to change about myself..No More!

 

I am quite fine the way I am...If a women likes you she is going to like you for being you.. There is no game...If you have to play a game for a women to like you, What happens when the real you shows up? Sooner or later he will! Then what?

[hurts_so_bad]

Back in the day-I would walk into a bar and pick a pretty girl (they never get hit on btw) and say " I'm here for a good time not for a long time,would you like to get laid?"

 

I will tell you it worked,it also led to the nightmare 18 years later that I now type about here!

 

REVITUP

 

LMFAO! Thats Great REV!!!

 

From what I hear it does work sometimes! Never tried it in fear of getting belted! lol..

[revitup]

In DC I had a friend "Dan" who one time at a bar asked me to play a game of bar stool rodeo,I asked what that was and he told me this...

You have to go to the bar and bite the rear end of the woman I pick out....And hold the bite for 8 seconds!

 

I promise I didn't do it,but Dan did it! The girl liked it and she laughed so hard that I almost passed out!

 

REVITUP

[hurts_so_bad]

In DC I had a friend "Dan" who one time at a bar asked me to play a game of bar stool rodeo,I asked what that was and he told me this...

You have to go to the bar and bite the rear end of the woman I pick out....And hold the bite for 8 seconds!

 

I promise I didn't do it,but Dan did it! The girl liked it and she laughed so hard that I almost passed out!

 

REVITUP

 

See so there is no real guaranteed play! everyone is different but some will have you believe that if you are a particular way you will score all the time and its BS..I dont care who you are no one scores all the time!

[hurts_so_bad]

My new found philosopy which I believe is pretty universal is to treat people the way they deserve to be treated...Im sticking by it cause i feel its what works for me but there is still that other issue with whether you say something or not if someone does something to piss you off!

 

I guess this is more on a ex girl scenario then a friend....

 

I know some people say to keep you mouth shut that it can make you sound needy if you say sometihng about them canceling a date or whatever, and that silence speaks for itself if you choose just to ignore them afterwards..

 

But at what point do you finally decide to open your mouth! Its so hard for me as a man to keep my mouth shut! I like to defend myself and say what is bothering me but Im unsure at the risk of sounding needy..

 

Most of you guys know my story...My ex wanted a date then cancelled the day before..I decided that since she was nice about it I would give her another shot if she asks for another date..If she flaked again then i would tell her where to go..Or if she waited to long I would just say no..

 

Here is what happened today..I was walking back from Kmart crossing the street and she drove by beeping the horn and waving but did not stop...You just asked me out two weeks ago and now you treat me like a total f@@king stranger?!

 

What the hell is wrong with her..I feel so badly to tell her that! I know its probably better to say nothing but at what point do you stick up for yourself as a man and say something without the worry of looking needy to her...

 

I think my best course of action from here on out with her is not to bother with her at all..ignore her texts and calls completely unless its in regards to the kids...When she asks why I am and im sure she will sooner or later then Im going to tell her....

 

You asked me on a date which you flaked on and a week later you pass me by in the street like Im a stranger..Im done playing games with you! I have better things to do...You want to treat me like a jerk and like a stranger thats how I will treat you! dont call or text me anymore...

 

sometimes you wonder which truely is the better choice...Soemtimes keeping your mouth shut makes you feel like a wimp obiding by them in order to not piss them off and you would look like more of a man if you said something regardless of whether it pisses them off or not! Which is best?

Edited August 25, 2013 by hurts_so_bad

[vla1120]

Sometimes you wonder which truely is the better choice...Soemtimes keeping your mouth shut makes you feel like a wimp obiding by them in order to not piss them off and you would look like more of a man if you said something regardless of whether it pisses them off or not! Which is best?

 

I'm a peacekeeper by nature and there was never any winning with him. I spent a good part of my marriage keeping my mouth shut to keep the peace and avoid screaming matches, especially in front of my daughters. In the process, I lost a part of myself and ultimately let him believe he was always right. He believed my silence was me agreeing with him or giving into him. Based on my history, I will always believe it is better to speak your mind and will do so in the future, that's for sure. If you can't voice your opinion with your partner in a mutually respectful manner, you're with the wrong person. I don't recommend taking 32 years to figure that out.

[revitup]

VLA said- I spent a good part of my marriage keeping my mouth shut to keep the peace and avoid screaming matches, especially in front of my daughters. In the process, I lost a part of myself and ultimately let him believe he was always right.

 

I did the same thing VLA,it causes a person to be indecisive and doubt their own thoughts.This happened so slowly that I didn't notice.....then I woke up,luckily.I ran business's and managed large numbers of people,vendors and other managers.It was not my normal self to be a pushover,just at home.

 

My buddies actually started a joke about eating corn! The "hen pecked" reference....they would all pass around an ear of corn.You might be out on the ocean,come into shore and get into your truck to find "the corn" swinging on your mirror!Sooner or later everyone had the "corn"!

 

While it's normal to compromise with your spouse and give in to some things you don't really enjoy,it's NOT normal to submit your self-esteem to someone else's abuse.

 

Like yourself,I let it go to an unhealthy level and then it was almost too late to come back.I did it out of love and "to keep the peace".

 

I am grateful for my life today and make decisions and stick to them.

 

My new belief is "I'll be the best me....for you"! this applies to all who I work with and those I call friends.

 

By being our very best,we will never allow anyone else to run over us again because when we are our very best.....we love ourselves.

 

REVITUP

[revitup]

See so there is no real guaranteed play! everyone is different but some will have you believe that if you are a particular way you will score all the time and its BS..I don't care who you are no one scores all the time!

 

Nope,nothing in life is guaranteed,there are however,ways to improve the odds.The more you ask,the more your odds improve.

 

I would also (when single) just walk up without any hesitation, sit beside a lady in the bar and ask "What is it you want in a man?" They would for the most part, tell you EXACTLY what they want in a man! Then I became EXACTLY that, for a little while anyway.Was it a game? Sure it was a game. If you go to the barber shop-you will get a haircut sooner or later and if you go to a pick up joint,you get picked up...sooner or later.

 

We all are trying to figure out the game of life in one way or the other,whether you win or lose is really just a matter of perspective.One man's trash is another's treasure.We live (America) in a manner that our ancestors-100 yrs ago,would think impossible! We're all blessed to have an opportunity to start new every morning.

 

I have learned ,to love, to live ,to leave , a legacy. Jim Rohn is one of my favorite writers and that is his saying,along with much of the philosophy I have learned to make my own.Had it not been for the many years of motivational reading and life's hard knocks prepping me for this last one...I doubt I would have made it this far.

 

REVITUP

Edited August 25, 2013 by revitup
missing word

[2.50 a gallon]

h-s-b

 

Actually, during the disco days, if you knew how to dance, you could pick up a new bed partner every night. My friends all made fun of me for going. They didn't know what they were missing.

 

Young, good looking women, drinking and shaking their booties to a sexy beat. The whole atmosphere, the music, the light show, was intoxicating, especially if you knew how to spin.

[keepontruckin]

hayewils, it is a game. And you play the hand that you are dealt with the best that you can.

 

My wife left me, but you know what? I don't regret a thing. It was worth it. The time, money and love I invested into that relationship was worth it, because I enjoyed every minute of it...

 

I could be an azzhole at times, and she could be a britch, but we are whom we are.

 

And if she is happiest leaving, I won't stand in her way. There are other women out there, but I know it's hard to see it that way...

 

Smile at them. Compliment them. Do the things now that you'd wished you'd done. You may see results once you release that old baggage.

 

I am a bad boy, yes I will admit that... However, to carry on in the face of adversity is a trait that is commendable to all, and even desirable...

[keepontruckin]

And that shotshell, you throw it out. You throw out everything that reminds you of her. You burn her pictures. I have my wedding ring still, but I am probably going to sell it soon. That's the only thing I kept.

 

LOOK at other people. ENGAGE them.

[revitup]

h-s-b

 

Actually, during the disco days, if you knew how to dance, you could pick up a new bed partner every night. My friends all made fun of me for going. They didn't know what they were missing.

 

Young, good looking women, drinking and shaking their booties to a sexy beat. The whole atmosphere, the music, the light show, was intoxicating, especially if you knew how to spin.

 

 

2.50, I wore the "Parachute" pants to the "menopause" lounge in Fayetteville NC when I was 16 (phoney ID) and picked up the 40+ crowd! I thought they were old!!!!

 

REVITUP

[2.50 a gallon]

Revitup

 

I know of what you speak. When dancing I wore the tightest slacks possible. I was forever being groped out on the dance floor, and not always by my dance partner.

 

Disco was probably before your time. For those who missed out, it was almost like having sex. The disco turned on about 9 or 10, depending on which place you were at and shut down at 1 because of the laws of the state.

 

The first tunes were generally the slower type, and would gradually move up in intensity, then a 15 minute break with slow music for the dancers to catch their breath and refresh their bodies with liquid refreshment.

 

A sure thing was when the set ended with Gloria Gayner's "I Will Survive" It never failed to get me a BJ or a HJ in the parking lot while we stepped out into the parking lot to cool off.

 

The succeeding sets would again grow in intensity. The last set was the climax, all of the girls wanted a dance partner for the last set as that was when the absolute best songs would play. Generally it started out with "Push, Push In the Bush" and went up from there, and ended with something like Donna Summers "MacArthur's Park" 25 minutes of hard dancing that left dancers not only intoxicated with the booze, and the atmosphere, but also with a true runners high.

 

Nobody wanted the fun, the high and excitement to end, so we would take the party home to a private party.

Edited August 26, 2013 by 2.50 a gallon
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I was at a club with two girls (friends) last night when my ex wifes friend came over to me and said you do know your ex is on her way her..I said so? She said do you want me to tell her she shouldnt come..I said no not at all..It is what it is..Anyway,

 

I find myself on the back deck of the club chatting with one of the girls when I look over my sholder and there is my ex and her girlfriend staring at me..SoI pay them no mind but noticed that my ex made a comment "she has no idea!" which I guess was meant for the girl that I was talking to about me..

 

Anyway as the night went on apparently my ex got a bit drunk and started texting me...

 

The text went like this...

 

Her..Where did you go?

Her...U could have said hello lmao

Her Snob...lol

Me...Call John *******..John is the guy she has been seeing

Her..piece of **** loser

Her..I'll call him to **** u up

Her...Jerkoff

Her...u piece of ****

Her...Get a ****ing life a real one

Her...The blonde thinks your a dick

 

She went on to say a few other things as well...Then she passes me by a mushes me in the head..At that point I walked over to her and told her to keep her hands the F ing off of me..Thats when security came over a grabbed her..Then she tried to say it was me bothering her till I showed her friends all the crazy **** she was texting me which shut their mouth pretty damn quick!

 

Unbelievable huh?!