hovoss Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 I have been dating that girl for 2 years... We had feelings for each other but before our actual dating, she broke off with her ex who cheated on her thrice. After one year she told me that she was still friends with him but that she needed time to move on.. I gave her all the space she needed. We were both in the same class at university and it was kinda hard for me to not talk to her.. After several small disputes she told me that she was not ready to be in a relationship. I was disapointed with her but she started dating me all over again. But in December last year, she told me that she met a guy and even kissed him but she told me that it was not intentional, that she still has feelings for me... At the end of university life, she told me not to worry or get jealous, that she will sort things out. Then she went to a vacation and found out through some photos that she went there with the guy. I did not tell her about this but on Monday we had some discussions and then things started going upside down... I told her what she wanted exactly and what was she up to. She told me that she was having good time with the boy, he was different but when she is with him, she thinks about me,,Well i just raged and told her "and me in all of this ?? do you care about my feelings?? Should i accept everything you throw at me?? She just told me that nothing is concrete...I just told her that even though i loved you, i can't remain friends with you and she just told me that "you are an hypocrite" " i remained friends with my ex but you are just dumping me??" What the is that ? Why should i ever remain in contact with her?? and she asked me if we will not talk at the graduation. I just told her "a resounding never!! Why am i an hypocrite in this??? For her i should have remained friends just to boost her eo or be the back up plans ?? Link to post Share on other sites
New User Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 You aren't a hypocrite at all. It's just an attempt to manipulate her- Do not allow that to influence you at all. She sounds like an absolutely horrid little person and I suspect that your life will be much better without her in it. Link to post Share on other sites
WordvAction Posted August 18, 2013 Share Posted August 18, 2013 Classic move by her, trying to manipulate you. Don't feed into that BS. No you're not a hypocrite at all. I actually commend you for doing this, and if you actually remain No Contact with this cheating Manipulating Hua, I guarantee you will find someone ten times better while she is in the rear-view begging for you to come back Link to post Share on other sites
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