strakekul Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Ok, so I'm not a bad looking guy and my situation is probably fairly unusual, so I'll explain. I was in a long term relationship (9.5 years) until earlier this year, but my then girlfriend didn't believe in sex (specifically intercourse) before marriage, and despite not personally sharing this belief, I respected her wishes. We still had great oral sex. Anyhow, the relationship ended for various reasons which kind of leaves me in a strange position. I have no reservations about having sex but I'm obviously lacking confidence and somewhat nervous about bringing it up with who I'm dating. So - most specifically to ladies reading this forum, how would you react? Is there a best time to tell someone?
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted August 18, 2013 Posted August 18, 2013 Ok, so I'm not a bad looking guy and my situation is probably fairly unusual, so I'll explain. I was in a long term relationship (9.5 years) until earlier this year, but my then girlfriend didn't believe in sex (specifically intercourse) before marriage, and despite not personally sharing this belief, I respected her wishes. We still had great oral sex. Anyhow, the relationship ended for various reasons which kind of leaves me in a strange position. I have no reservations about having sex but I'm obviously lacking confidence and somewhat nervous about bringing it up with who I'm dating. So - most specifically to ladies reading this forum, how would you react? Is there a best time to tell someone? Uhhh what? Don't tell anyone. Just go out and get it done. Plenty of women out there wanting to give it up easily. 1
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