Single ladies...do youcheck out or notice men as much as they notice you??

[MrTurk]

They certainly do. They may not ogle like many guys, but they check guys out.

 

Ok...if they do check guys out....WHY do they check them out? Because we all know most women will never approach or initiate contact

[todreaminblue]

i notice people, i am a bit of an observer its the poet in me, i notice though different things though, if i am walking down the street and a hot guy is walking towards me, i would notice the homeless person asking for change,or someone who looked a bit lost..or even a broken street light or a pole that has been crashed into ro a stain on the concrete that looks suspect....and i get lost in a day dream....i woudl probably fall over ahot guy ro run into him before i noticed him....i tend to scan,without a doubt the lost person or homeless person is the one that would either come up to me or i would go to them, i dont really class looks as hot, i have to go a bit deeper to find out who the guy is before i consider them hot.....i am actually a bit cautious with men.......some good looking men can be not very nice ones.......that turns me off making judgements on looks alone....or what i consider to be hot happens when i get to know them adn i am not walking around creating poetry in my head.......deb

[hotpotato]

How would a woman notice a man noticing her if she wasn't presently noticing him?

 

Some guys or rather people stare daggers. Sometimes you can just feel it!

[MrTurk]

sea of bald heads that are everywhere now. Jeez, I'm starting to feel like there's a Cone Heads convention in town and no one told me.

 

Exactly I've been shaving my head for over 10 years....now EVERY idiot does it to fit in because its become cliche. So now I just blend in with all the morons....and people assume I'm just another moron trying to fit in.

[MrTurk]

that turns me off making judgements on looks alone....or what i consider to be hot happens when i get to know them

 

 

Thats how I am with women. Too many people give attractive members of the opposite sex bonus points before they even meet them. And then once they do meet them, they give them more leeway than a less attractive person gets.

[todreaminblue]

Exactly I've been shaving my head for over 10 years....now EVERY idiot does it to fit in because its become cliche. So now I just blend in with all the morons....and people assume I'm just another moron trying to fit in.

 

but you know you're not the guy trying to fit in......

 

 

so it doesnt really matter what they think......i have never assume oh look another bald man trying to fit in...who would? i consider myself to be an average human

 

 

 

its a strange thing to think of .if people think of that when they meet someone who has no hair...smilin atcha.....deb

[MrTurk]

but you know you're not the guy trying to fit in......

 

 

so it doesnt really matter what they think......i have never assume oh look another bald man trying to fit in...who would? i consider myself to be an average human

 

 

 

its a strange thing to think of .if people think of that when they meet someone who has no hair...smilin atcha.....deb

 

 

 

Unfortunately, that's SO rare to find nowadays in the sea of bald heads that are everywhere now. Jeez, I'm starting to feel like there's a Cone Heads convention in town and no one told me.

 

Yes....unfortunately many women think that way. Deb, you are in the minority.

[todreaminblue]

Yes....unfortunately many women think that way. Deb, you are in the minority.

 

 

i really hope that i am not in a minority mr turk...i hoep that people woudl think its a really sucky thing to think about when you meet a guy or girl for that matter with no hair..and hope is a wonderful thing..it cant be proven wrong...;0).cheers to ya............deb

[Emilia]

I work in the financial district of London in a very competitive environment. As a lot of men have high powered jobs here they also tend to be pretty fit. I check them out all the time. Sometimes with my colleagues we just sit outside our favourite pub and oggle people as they walk past in hordes

[D-Lish]

Ive heard that many women tend to be focused on the task at hand....or "in the moment" more than men. If a woman is shopping, shes focused on shopping, if shes buying groceries shes focused on her list and making selections....but then when she goes out at night with friends...THATS more of the "check out guys" time.

 

Do women tend to separate their intentions/tasks?

 

As a woman, I'm ALWAYS aware of my surroundings- but women have much better peripheral vision than men. I can see when a man is checking me out without looking like I am glancing in his direction.

 

When I am facing forward, looking forward, I can see everything from right in front of me to what is going on behind my ears.

 

So- if a dude is standing behind me, but off to the side- I can see him, and I can see if he is looking at me. Guys have tunnel vision, and no filter or shame when it comes to staring.

 

I might spot a good looking guy when I'm out and about- but I don't have to look directly at him to see him or know where he is.

 

Women multi-task. I can shop and scope out men without the men even knowing I see them. Granted- the sparky shoes in the window will usually take precedence.

[MrCastle]

As a woman, I'm ALWAYS aware of my surroundings- but women have much better peripheral vision than men. I can see when a man is checking me out without looking like I am glancing in his direction.

 

When I am facing forward, looking forward, I can see everything from right in front of me to what is going on behind my ears.

 

So- if a dude is standing behind me, but off to the side- I can see him, and I can see if he is looking at me. Guys have tunnel vision, and no filter or shame when it comes to staring.

 

I might spot a good looking guy when I'm out and about- but I don't have to look directly at him to see him or know where he is.

 

Women multi-task. I can shop and scope out men without the men even knowing I see them. Granted- the sparky shoes in the window will usually take precedence.

 

Such a sneak!

 

As a single man, I will shamelessly admit I check out girls, making no effort to hide it whatsoever. If I like what I see, girls are gonna know about it. If I want to check out a girl's behind who just walked past me, I will most definitely turn my head around and check out her ass and I don't care who is around to catch me doing it.

 

I'm a 25 year old super horny single guy who doesn't give a f*ck about many things so, it is what it is. Life is too short to not check girls out for fear of how it looks socially.

[ReadySettyGo]

As a woman, I'm ALWAYS aware of my surroundings- but women have much better peripheral vision than men. I can see when a man is checking me out without looking like I am glancing in his direction.

 

Yeah, I've been sprung from some ridiculously tight angles. Sometimes I think, no way, that's impossible, there must be another sense at play.

 

On the other hand, I love the 'googly eyes' some women get when caught sneaking you a peak. While their head continues looking, their eyes dart all over the place trying to look away.

[tbf]

I work in the financial district of London in a very competitive environment. As a lot of men have high powered jobs here they also tend to be pretty fit. I check them out all the time. Sometimes with my colleagues we just sit outside our favourite pub and oggle people as they walk past in hordes

The financial industry not only selects for brains and credentials, it selects for looks and charm.

[FemmeMystere]

Oh yeah, if a guy is my type, I'll check him out. But I try to be discreet. Unless he's tall, dark haired, olive skinned, chiseled features... and jogging shirtless! Then my neck might snap

[Betterthanthis13]

We all know the eyes on most men are constantly scanning girls all around them....checking out whos hot whos not.

 

But what about most women? Do women spend that much of their day constantly checking out other men in the vicinity?

 

The reason I ask....is because my job puts me in retail businesses most every day. I have noticed from what I can tell....that most women seem to be unconcerned with the men around them. I never see them checking out guys, and have never seen them checking out me.

 

But I think we can all agree that we see other guys checking out women a lot. I see guys checking out women almost anywhere I go. Its pretty blatant.

 

Ive heard that many women tend to be focused on the task at hand....or "in the moment" more than men. If a woman is shopping, shes focused on shopping, if shes buying groceries shes focused on her list and making selections....but then when she goes out at night with friends...THATS more of the "check out guys" time.

 

Do women tend to separate their intentions/tasks?

 

 

Can't speak for all women but I always notice hot guys- I'm just not obvious about it like dudes are

[tbf]

When single and on the prowl, my looks become obvious!

[miss_jaclynrae]

We notice, we just aren't "cave men" about it.

In a relationship not much, other than a "oh he is attractive", but when I was single?

 

 

**** yeah.