BobbySteels Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 This is my first post on this site. I am involved in a relationship that has changed drastically in the last week. We have had great time being with each other from the first day we met. We moved in to a bigger place so we could have more room and be happy. Our relationship has really been great. What has happen is I know I have said things to her that hurt he feelings out of fear. She was involved with her daughter's father for some time. But he has been gone for the last 6 years due to being in jail. He comes out December 1st of this year and I am scared that she is just going to up and leave me when he gets home. She has made it PERFECTLY clear that she in no way shape or form is going to do this because she does not want to be with him. If she is not with me she would rather be alone. The problem is that with-in the last week I have been told she no longer wants this relationship. She does not want to be with me and it is not because of him. Then she has turned around and asked me to stay. She has told me that she is willing to work on our relationship but something is different. Some thing is different about the way she looks at me, talks to me, kisses me, or even makes love to me sometimes. I am scared that she is only trying to prove that she does not want to be with me any more and wants me to see something that for some reason she sees. I love this woman with everything I have and do not know what to do about this issue. She has agreed to try and make this work because she wants to make it work but she can not even tell me she loves me sometimes any more. What should I do? I want to be here with her more than anything and am willing to prove it to her in any possible. Any ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
tsg Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 I feel your pain. Take it from someone who has learned this the hard way. DO NOT PUSH HER. Take whatever she tells you as fact. Try not to give too much thought. You haven't lost her yet, but if you push her, you soon will. Just try and relax and give her some room. Link to post Share on other sites
Author BobbySteels Posted November 10, 2004 Author Share Posted November 10, 2004 OK I thought I would give this an update a little bit. Yesterday was a wild day by early morning I was told to leave and be gone for good. I really thought it was over and done with. But I was surprised to hear from her and her sorrows about what had happen. We talked in depth about the issues. We both agreed to try and make this work because we both realize it is something we want. She likes to be VERY mean when she gets upset and she was VERY VERY mean when it all hit the fan. I am just wondering what or how should I try to handle this now. We both want this but I mean she is still a little questionable about the issue at times which hurts me. Any more ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
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