Why doesnt he want oral sex?

[tirena]

I'm new to the game but I love to try new things (and basically everything is new to me because he's my first sexual partner). We've been sleeping together for four months and I first went down on him about two months into the 'relationship'. It got him horny but I couldnt finish him off, due to my lack of expertise. I altered my technique and tried again a couple of weeks later, but he said to stop and that he wanted to 'go in' instead. I tried once more a week later and this time it was highly successful, with him thoroughly enjoying it (raved about it for a week afterwards!). It was about two weeks later before I attempted it again, but he stopped me and we had sex instead. Since then, I've started to several times, and each time he's stopped me. Whats up? (no pun intended). I thought guys were supposed to like oral sex. I'm eager, enthusiastic and willing to learn. I really love to give blowjobs, I have discovered. And he did cum that one time, so he knows I can actually do it! I'm starting to feel really bad about it, just because I don't know whats going on. Should I just forget ever attempting it again? I know that he likes oral sex because he's always raving on about it to his mates and he gave me oral sex before we even had sex itself. So is it me? I make it quite clear I am very inexperienced and very willing to learn, so all he has to do is help me along. I just don't get it.

[Quandary]

Don't take it personally. I bet it jsut turns him on to the point that once it's all over and done with he can't have sex with you.

 

Keep trying but just to start things off. You may want to ask him about it. But if you made him cum I would not worry that it is something you did wrong. Be proud of yourself and go with the flow.

 

Maybe you guys should do a 69 so taht way at least he fells like he gets to pleasure you as well.

 

Hope that helps

[Bubbles]

Hi,

 

My man really enjoys oral sex but the one thing it took him a long time to tell me was that after I was down there, he really didn't like when I kissed him afterwards. He says it just doesn't make him feel o.k. He loves to kiss me but not after that and especially if he has an orgasm that's just yucky to him.

 

Good luck and keep trying, he'll love your persistence!

I'm new to the game but I love to try new things (and basically everything is new to me because he's my first sexual partner). We've been sleeping together for four months and I first went down on him about two months into the 'relationship'. It got him horny but I couldnt finish him off, due to my lack of expertise. I altered my technique and tried again a couple of weeks later, but he said to stop and that he wanted to 'go in' instead. I tried once more a week later and this time it was highly successful, with him thoroughly enjoying it (raved about it for a week afterwards!). It was about two weeks later before I attempted it again, but he stopped me and we had sex instead. Since then, I've started to several times, and each time he's stopped me. Whats up? (no pun intended). I thought guys were supposed to like oral sex. I'm eager, enthusiastic and willing to learn. I really love to give blowjobs, I have discovered. And he did cum that one time, so he knows I can actually do it! I'm starting to feel really bad about it, just because I don't know whats going on. Should I just forget ever attempting it again? I know that he likes oral sex because he's always raving on about it to his mates and he gave me oral sex before we even had sex itself. So is it me? I make it quite clear I am very inexperienced and very willing to learn, so all he has to do is help me along. I just don't get it.