POLL: What is the most contentious issue in your marriage?

[Soulmate?]

A & D

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Infidelity and divorce.......

[shellso]

He never is in the "mood" to have sex and we rairly ever do....about once every two weeks I, myself, am a very sexual/sensual young woman in my prime....he's only 25 but thinks I'm a "sex crazed little girl" as I am a few years younger than he is. Most of the time I feel like he has no interest in me sexually and most of the time It's true.

 

Comunication is also a problem. He will tell me one thing...he likes the painting I picked out...then go ranting to his mother about how trashy and ugly it is and rerfuse to put it up saying he hasn't got the time. Then he'll explode and yell about how ugly it is when I thought this whole time he liked it.

He dose this in many situations this is mearly an example.

[whichwayisup]

POLL: What is the most contentious issue in your marriage? Post: 1 | Quote:

 

a) Sex

 

b) Money

 

c) Household Responsibilities

 

d) Communication

 

e) Spouse's straying ways (ie. porn, flirting,..etc.)

 

f) something not listed here

 

A mostly. I don't get sex enough. And the fact he doesn't like to perform much oral sex on me DOES get to me once in a while...(How can it not?) But it is getting better...Just in the past it was an issue. Not so much right now.

 

D as well. We have our moments when we can talk about anything and everything...As long as HE is okay with it. As soon as he hears something he doesn't really like or it has be a real sit down 'discussion' I can see him tune out. Bugs me alot actually but its just the way he is. Eventually he comes around, in his own way though...Not the way I would like or handle but atleast he DOES listen to me...

 

F He just BUGS the s*** out of me sometimes. I mean he really irritates me. TO the point some days I just look at him and say to myself, "Holy crap! This is the rest of my life! WTF?" He can be really serious at times, I'm the silly one and would be nice at times if he would just lighten UP!!!

[startingover1028]

A

 

and A

 

and, did I say .... A?

 

 

He NEVER wants sex...

It's been TWO years since we've had sex.... Two years... and people wonder why I almost cheated...?

 

It won't be much longer. ... I will leave this situation and finally be free to find someone more "compatible"

[LucreziaBorgia]

A & B

 

My sex drive was never the same after my thyroid gland was removed. Its there, but its not as intense as it used to be. Money, money, money. Ah, yes. We don't fight over it, but debt and working our way out of it gets us down.

[Azeele]

If your thyroid gland was removed and you are only taking a synthetic T4 replacement, like synthroid, you might want to consider a natural throid replacement like Armour thyroid. I'm a member of a Yahoo group of other people, like me, who are taking natural thyroid hormone. You might find that natural hormone replacement will get rid of all your hypothyroid symptoms - like low sex drive.

 

Check it out:

 

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/NaturalThyroidHormones/

 

 

-Anne

[LucreziaBorgia]

Thanks! I'll check that out, for sure.