EnglishBroad Posted August 21, 2013 Share Posted August 21, 2013 Ok So I have a problem. My first love was a girl called Lauren and we have had history for 8 years. During this time we have also tried to be there for each other and be best friends even in the off periods. For 3 years she dated a girl called Katherine and together they broke my heart. When her and Lauren broke up Lauren’s whole world was destroyed. I have recently started seeing Katherine more as she is in my friendship circle at University and it ended up that over two years we became quite close though no feelings ever developed. Lauren and I have recently started a relationship and she found out that Katherine and I became close and flipped out. There were no foul intentions on my part and I would do anything for Lauren, so much so that I cut all ties with Katherine in order to spare Lauren’s feelings. Everything with Lauren was perfect until she rang me saying that Katherine had showed her a message from me. (they still work together) which I had sent months ago saying I missed her. Lauren said that she felt betrayed and couldn’t get her head around why I would do that to her. She basically flipped out at me, saying she didn’t trust me and I wasn’t the person she thought I was. Have I been a complete ******* or am I right to think Lauren is over-reacting, after all I have ended a friendship with Katherine for her? I can understand why she wouldn’t be completely happy with this but I don’t think it has called for the reaction she has given me. Help Please! Link to post Share on other sites
Faith13/2 Posted August 21, 2013 Share Posted August 21, 2013 I can see where you're both coming from. I don't think you're an *******, but I can see why this would have bothered Lauren considering you knew what had happened between them two. Seems Lauren may have overlooked your "I miss you" as a little more than you originally intended. Katherine seems to have tried adding some fuel to the fire.. One other thought that comes to mind is, if it's so horrible for you to have communicated with this girl, why is she still? I think you also would have right to feel some type of way about this. Link to post Share on other sites
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