Brad1 Posted August 21, 2013 Share Posted August 21, 2013 So I've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 months before I'd moved to Florida. We were and are deeply in love and would do anything for each other. Problem is she's going to a super expensive school and I have to get a tennis scholarship there. There is no question both of us want to be together and would stay and live the rest of our lives together under different circumstances. Basically whether or not we will survive as a couple depends on me getting a scholarship there. So about two weeks ago, we decided to be friends for now until we both figured out what we were doing. She still face times me every day and Ido her me every day and we text constantly. My question to you is do you think that we should stay together? We basically had lived together for two of those months, and I am in pain just thinking about us not being there in a couple months. I just want her to be happy, she still says she loves me and am the best thing that has ever happened to her, but I don't know if its for the best. Thankyou Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 21, 2013 Share Posted August 21, 2013 My question to you is do you think that we should stay together? I think you should go to another school and do your thing. Both of you should decide which school to attend depending on your skills and goals, not because your loved one goes there. I wouldn't choose high school that way, guess college... If love is there, you will survive the years apart. Or you can keep in touch now and then and if both of you are still single when college is over, you can get back together. You would both bring more experience into the relationship, and a different level of maturity. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brad1 Posted August 22, 2013 Author Share Posted August 22, 2013 What if this school is one of three that I really want to go to for medical, and I get in, should i go or choose another? Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 I guess you should carefully weigh your options. Expensiveness, work opportunities when you get out of college, general reputation, curricula offered, location... If you get accepted from just one place, you won't have any option. Otherwise you start comparing. Link to post Share on other sites
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