butterflygrl Posted November 9, 2004 Share Posted November 9, 2004 hey all i have a ? to ask.. do you think it is wrong of me to get mad because ex has my h cell and ss has a cell why would she need his cell when she communicates with son anyway.. she knows we are having problems and likes to stir the pot... h didn't want her to have it .. also we have had cell phones for going on 2 yr and never bothered to call before or even get the number even when ss didn't have a cell..she usually calls the house phone or ss cell why now h cell? h don't want her calling he can't stand her and ss knows h didn't want her having it .. she called h cell last night and ss was here and could have called his cell.. i think it is out of spite .. i know my h don't want her but i wish she would get a life and talk with her child that is 14 and quit calling my h they don't usually talk anyways if they do it is through child ..she has called h cell even after he told her not to.. she has called him friday sat sun and mon .. she has never called before why now is all i want to know.. the thing is she is living with a man so why now after all this time!!! Link to post Share on other sites
The_Analyzer Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 Could be like you said shes just stirring the pot. Don't get your H or ss to tell her not to call the cell. You tell her. Don't go through either of them, you go to the source yourself and let her know if she needs to call which phone she should call on. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
butterflygrl Posted November 10, 2004 Share Posted November 10, 2004 thanks analyzer i appreciate the reply .. thats what i said i was going to do and my h said whatever!! i have told her off many times and iwill do it again she is such a bitch and i can't stand her so it would not bother me at all to tell her off again .. Link to post Share on other sites
Sugar_Cube Posted November 16, 2004 Share Posted November 16, 2004 I agree, I think maybe if she calls again you should tell her not to call your H's cell anymore. Shes probably just wanting to cause trouble. Hope all works out. Link to post Share on other sites
butterflygrl Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 thanks sugar cube i totally agree with you and analyzer.. if she does call again i will let her have it thanks for all the replys Link to post Share on other sites
Stinkerbelle Posted November 27, 2004 Share Posted November 27, 2004 My fiance and I have had to deal with this with his ex. Some calls are inevitable, but they will only be tolerated if they stick to discussing issues which revolve around problems with the children. Link to post Share on other sites
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