Mr.White Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 I am an 19 year old male and I have just been partying and having fun but last night was the first time I flirted with an old childhood female friend. I am not sure if I have been oblivious but as I messaged her last night she asked "what are you going to be doing around 10:30 P.M?" She knows I get off from work at 10, and I am still shocked that she would approach me like that. Every time I hang out with her guys constantly try to flirt, and get her number even offering extra attention and free items. I have known her since I was 5 years old and have never seen her in a sexual way. She helped me through my first break up over 8 months ago, and she knows 'I don't kiss and tell'. 1) Have you ever "friendzoned" someone? 2) What is your view on becoming a FWB within your social circle? The more detailsed the better. Link to post Share on other sites
random_guy Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 1. Yeah, I wanted to avoid relationships, so I interacted with women until they stopped sending signals and vibes (ie: window of attraction passed) 2."Don't pee where you swim" applies here. It can work, but if it doesn't, you're in a much worse situation than just wanting sex Link to post Share on other sites
Auguria Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 Very bad idea! Link to post Share on other sites
Onward_Upward Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 Go for it! What the heck have you got to lose? ... Just make sure you wear a freakin' condom! Link to post Share on other sites
farva2 Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 A buddy of mine was in a similar situation and while it was the best sex he ever had, things degraded to the point where both parties resented each other but then again he has issues controlling his anger, jealousy, and confidence. I say go for it and gain some valuable life experience!...and sex Link to post Share on other sites
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