na49 Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 I've had a problem with these two things and it is very frustrating for me. When I am given any kind of choice, I either don't know which to pick and take a long time to make up my mind (which can drive others crazy) or I say something like "I guess I'll take that one" which I hate doing. I don't like sounding unsure about something. I'd be much happier just saying "Yes" or "No". I'm sure fixing this is as easy as just making a choice and sticking with it. Well when I do that, then I'm left with the uneasy feeling of "did I make the right choice?" Yesterday I was shopping and saw two shirts that I liked. I wanted both but only had enough money for one. Eventually I picked one, and spent the entire ride home thinking about if I should have picked the other one instead. In restaurants with big menus I will order something and as soon as it gets to me, I will look around at what other's ordered and think "I should have got that instead". Does anyone else struggle with this? Or know of ways to deal with it? Link to post Share on other sites
It-is-what-it-is. Posted August 22, 2013 Share Posted August 22, 2013 Are you a Libra? Link to post Share on other sites
Author na49 Posted August 22, 2013 Author Share Posted August 22, 2013 Are you a Libra? No I'm not a Libra. Link to post Share on other sites
treezy Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Yes, I have that issue. I've always had that issue. I deal with it by asking my friends to make the decision for me instead. If I'm alone, I either don't get anything or get something else. I was in the same circumstances as you that day, not sure which size I should get for this skirt. I decided to get a top instead so no regrets. Don't put it down as indecisiveness, let's just say we're being savvy. Link to post Share on other sites
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