ExpatInItaly Posted September 5, 2013 Posted September 5, 2013 If she ended up crying when you tried to talk to her on several occasions, then she wasn't exactly happy with the questions you were asking or with being involved with you. She was moving away in several senses. It's not difficult to spot familiar patterns of communcation, phrases, and so on, so I guess she quickly realised you had joined the same forum. While we might all 'google' a potential girlfriend/guy we meet, to see what, if anything, is online about them, joining the same forums to keep an eye on them is a different matter. She's entitled to privacy. It sounds like she's wanting to let this relationship fizzle out but daren't say so. Rather than trying to make her come round to your point of view, let her go and don't follow her around online. It is stalking if you get into doing that. This is the part I'm wondering about. Why was she crying so much?
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