sweetkiwi Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Really? I was hoping this was some small anomaly among men. :lmao: So cute. I know a male model. Beautiful man. Very sexual. Even he NEVER asked me for a naughty picture. There are good ones out there. Keep praying the idiots out themselves so quickly. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted August 23, 2013 Author Share Posted August 23, 2013 :lmao: So cute. I know a male model. Beautiful man. Very sexual. Even he NEVER asked me for a naughty picture. There are good ones out there. Keep praying the idiots out themselves so quickly. Ah yes, but if he's late 30's, never married, and lives in Mill Valley... I'm not interested. Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 I've gotten similar requests from beautiful and not so beautiful men in ages between 25-60. Powerful and rich... and poor as church mice. Seriously.. there is no age limit, looks criteria, or income filtering on this sort of thing. Sorry... hate to break it to ya... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Well. In any case you should be happy that only a small percentage of men you meet are like that. Most men I meet are like this and I'm thinking they're this way because it has worked for them before more than a few times. Very hot guys? I believe it would work for them. I guess I'm cynical, but for a man to put that much time and effort into his appearance, I assume it is primarily about getting women in bed. A man that vain would have to prove his sincerity to me before I took him seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetkiwi Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Ah yes, but if he's late 30's, never married, and lives in Mill Valley... I'm not interested. No, yes, no. And that's cool because he's mine . Really though it's not all guys. And unfortunately you won't find out till you DO, you know? So keep dating with a hopeful heart. You're a good woman and you'll find your man ! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 I'm not sure about better behaved, but they are gonna be hard as rocks. Funny thing is... if just sex is on the table... not sure why a guy my own age would think I'd have to settle for a guy my own age... :rolleyes: I just got a text back from a younger guy I used to work with who I know is sweet on me... he asked me before about going rock climbing, and I declined at the time because I thought he was too young for me... Plus I was just starting to see someone and wanted to see where it went... now I'm not sooooo.... Wellllll whaddya know... I saw Mr. Rock Climbing guy walking to his car at the grocery store... and sent him a quick text to see if he wanted to go... He just responded... (suweeet!!) I'm gonna throw a time out there and see where it goes... With my luck, he is probably seeing someone... but ya never know! Just an FYI... no, I'm not going after this guy just for sex. At all. I'm just going to stop assuming the young guys who express an interest in me necessarily are just hitting on me for the sex... Since so many guys close to my own age seem to be so relationship phobic... and doing stuff like Star mentioned.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted August 23, 2013 Author Share Posted August 23, 2013 So keep dating with a hopeful heart. You're a good woman and you'll find your man ! Thanks, lovie. BUT WTF IS HE?!?!?!?! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Very hot guys? I believe it would work for them. I guess I'm cynical, but for a man to put that much time and effort into his appearance, I assume it is primarily about getting women in bed. A man that vain would have to prove his sincerity to me before I took him seriously. They don't have to be very hot really. Last guy who told me that was attractive but certainly not "very hot". They can range from average to model quality. Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 This thread has been a rather interesting read. Still thinking about what to say exactly..looks like everything else has been covered.. I'm hungry? ____ 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted August 23, 2013 Author Share Posted August 23, 2013 This thread has been a rather interesting read. Still thinking about what to say exactly..looks like everything else has been covered.. I'm hungry? ____ Wanna taco? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Wanna taco? ... with a glass of milk to go with it?? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Thanks, lovie. BUT WTF IS HE?!?!?!?! Maybe right around the corner!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 What's the worst part, that these guys exist or that they likely have a hell of a lot more options than the good guys on this site who would do anything to have a girlfriend? Blah blah blah. Why don't they go for the good awkward ugly girls??? It's a shame that high maintenance hot bitches have the most options. This shyt goes both ways. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
MrNate 2.0 Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Wanna taco? ... with a glass of milk to go with it?? ..Women. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Blah blah blah. Why don't they go for the good awkward ugly girls??? It's a shame that high maintenance hot bitches have the most options. This shyt goes both ways. Yeah I know. What the hell is up with that? Give me the librarian who can stimulate my brain... Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Nonsense Almost all the guys I see just want a girl about as attractive as ourselves. We don't want nor could we really handle a hot bitch type I've never been interested in anybody out of my league Well, to be fair, you do have a bias in saying this. Not saying you're wrong, but it's hard to be objective about these things... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Nonsense Almost all the guys I see just want a girl about as attractive as ourselves. We don't want nor could we really handle a hot bitch type I've never been interested in anybody out of my league I interact with more men than women and my experience is the complete opposite of yours so yes, I don't really care what you have to say here. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Nonsense Almost all the guys I see just want a girl about as attractive as ourselves. We don't want nor could we really handle a hot bitch type I've never been interested in anybody out of my league Wow, I just clocked 49 is right - it's very difficult to be objective when the perception of our reality is open to interpretation, and we're likely to use it to confirm our own biased views. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
PlumPrincess Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 I interact with more men than women and my experience is the complete opposite of yours so yes, I don't really care what you have to say here. YAY! Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Women have it a 1,000 times easier than men do in dating. That's common sense The common misconception that a lot of guys have is that they think that it means they are happier. Happiness is a state of mind. There are people born into million dollar families who are utterly miserable For women, not finding somebody who is exactly what they want in every area is the same as not finding anybody at all. It makes no difference if there are a 100,000 guys after them. If none of them are exactly what she wants, then they don't exist Some guys are baffled by how this is possible as so many of us would kill just to find any halfway cute half sane woman who liked us but suffering is not relative. Hell look at how so many of us are miserable living in a country with a phenomenal standard of living. People in Africa would kill to have "the problems" that we have. Does that mean we feel our problems any less? Of course not Bah, everybody has their own set of problems. Tall people will end up with worse knees, but on the flip side they get to reach the top of the shelf without a ladder. Women have advantages and disadvantages. Same with men. On average, most people end up figuring out how to use their advantages and minimize their disadvantages. Some people though, never figure it out. Sad but true... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 WHAT has happened to GENTLEMEN? You ignored all the gentlemen and picked guys like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Women have advantages and disadvantages. Same with men. On average, most people end up figuring out how to use their advantages and minimize their disadvantages. Indeed. If more people would focus on this instead of spewing bitterness towards the rest of the world there'd be so many more happy and successful people. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Star Gazer Posted August 24, 2013 Author Share Posted August 24, 2013 You ignored all the gentlemen and picked guys like this. No, I did not. I did not pick perves. Read the thread. Link to post Share on other sites
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 While I mostly agree with this, where I don't is that so many men nowadays are not commitment-minded. They mostly hold the cards when it comes to having "the talk." I can't tell you how many time I've dated a dude, things are going really well then they claim they "aren't ready for a r'ship." Then you're back at square one, feeling even more defeated than before. Well, many men do. And many women have their own set of good cards to play. Men who complain about women having it easy are not exactly the kinds of men who have the luxury of telling a woman they don't want a relationship. Hence the disconnect and the belief that women have it easy. Those are often the same men who aren't desirable for other reasons (like social awkwardness or inexperience, etc.)... Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 How does a gender where their only responsibility in the mating game (in terms of finding a mate) is going out and picking the one that they like the most among all the suitors have it as hard as the men who actually have to chase and do all the work? Your first issue is having the above mindset. The entire population of women does not just have a line of suitors waiting for them like a row a ducks waiting to be picked. Sure, some women naturally are magnetic and men are attracted to them. But this is NOT ALL WOMEN. Plenty of women have to pursue, approach, and work to gain the interest of men. Link to post Share on other sites
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