Knoxpwns Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 So, I'm a dude. Figured I'd open with that given that its apparently mythical for a woman to even respond, but coming to me? damn. Well, the reason I am half confused because of the nature of these sites, knowing people's intentions on them, and this. I got a message from a gal near me. it read as follows; "random but I love the legend of zelda hat in ur other pic. That is all." Refering to a hat I was wearing in a picture plastered with Hylian Crests. So I guess what I wanted to know is... Really? Am I completely oblivious, or did someone actually take the time to go through my profile (even partially) and then send me a message to tell me I had a cool hat, and nothing more? If you can't tell, I suck at dating (been off the market for 6 years, never was on it prior to) so I am clueless as to how this works. I just figured if I wasn't actually interested in someone, I wouldn't message them at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Socks At Play Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Women are very wary of approaching guys. For one thing a lot of guys apparently react badly to it. Plus it's just easier for them when the guy is the vulnerable one who risks getting rejected. I think a message like this is better than winks or rating people or other non-message nonsense that OLD sites allow. If I found this woman interesting I'd have no problem proposing a date in response to that message. It's definitely better than "XYZ rates you four stars!" Link to post Share on other sites
NateC Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 Fire up a conversation just to have one..obviously if she was interested in the hat she's probably interested in the games. Link to post Share on other sites
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