Nervous Nervous Nervous I Think This Is It

[Leigh 87]

You said it was the best sexual experience you ever had? If no sex, how was it a sexual experience?

 

 

 

No sex or oral. Yet there was so much more we could still do!

 

He put his hand down my pants and um. Yeah. It felt the best out of any other experience I have had of the same nature. I was basically screaming and I have never done that before.

 

He got on top of me and... you know, Fcked with our clothes on. It was insanely ....... just ugh.

 

I have never wanted anyone so much in my life.

 

He said he felt the same. 100%.

 

It was a huge struggle not to let him... go down on me. However, I had been out all night and like to shower soon before a guy does that to me.

[Leigh 87]

Good things are starting to happen for all the LS ladies! First Iris, then Seuss, now Leigh...maybe LS really does help people!

 

Good luck OP!

 

 

 

Actually, I think dating the wrong guy for 2.5 years, and having had a previous wrong guy f0rm age 18 - 20 ish, helped me immensely.

 

But yes, Loveshack has helped me to realise that guys CAN and DO change their mind about you.

 

Which this guy could very well do.

 

Even though it seems INCREDIBLE when you were together and you're CONVINCED they felt the same.

[Leigh 87]

Damn you woman. I wish I were able to get all 'goo-goo ga-ga' like that after 24 hours of meeting someone for the first time.

 

 

I have only ever done it with two guys.

 

I was not like that about my ex boyfriend after first meeting him in the early stages, but I did feel something very special about him and I do think I was genuinely in love with him.

 

I just have something with this new guy that has been missing with all the other guys I have been with.

[Imajerk17]

Remember this is a marathon not a sprint.

 

Sounds like it was an amazing experience for you both. I think he will call very much so.

[Leigh 87]

Remember this is a marathon not a sprint.

 

Sounds like it was an amazing experience for you both. I think he will call very much so.

 

 

 

Well, while dropping me back home, he texted me a "hey:)" so I had his number.

 

The thing is, I already put my number in his phone? He must have forgot. Why else would he said me a "hey:)" message when I was sitting right next to him in the car, as though he thought I did not already have his number?

 

Weird.

[Leigh 87]

HE TEXTED.

 

Here is how it has gone so far.

 

This morning while I was with him, he texted me hey:). Obviously to make sure I had his number (I did give it to him the night prior)

 

I texted ( once I saw his message from this morning)

 

"hello"

" Hope you catch up on some sleep I hope we can hang out again sometime:)"

 

HIM: "Hey, did you still want to hang out tonight"

 

ME: "It's up to you:) we can have quiet night watching dvd's if you like"

 

 

 

:bunny::bunny: yikes, have no idea what he will say to that.

 

I am actually quiet stuffed with food and wanted to go on my walking machine to work off the beer and food.

 

 

 

OK he just texted me back

 

SEXY GUY: yea that sounds good. I'll come around at 7.30?

 

EXCITED GIRL: Sounds good.

 

SEXY GUY: Ok:) I'll call you when I get there

 

 

 

:bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny::bunny:

[Leigh 87]

fortunately I am not very horny now too much info I know but hey I'm not going to met ya'll. Although I travel a lot and plan to visit my best friend in the states in Arizona, so maybe I will hit younglove 89 up:D

 

So we fooled around a little and I got extremely turned on to the point of ... yeah. We were both VERY frustrated.

 

I told him that we should both hold "off" on masturbating ourselves, until we next see each other.

 

I get way hornier when I do not get myself off alone.

 

Well I have been resting in bed all day and could not help myself; also, I did not EXPECT him to necessarily text back:bunny::bunny:

 

So now I am not as horny.

 

............................................

 

I think I want to hold off from sex.

 

If he is that into me he will wait another day or two.

 

I think I will come clean and tell him I was naughty if he asks:lmao:

 

............................................

 

I think I want to know the direction we are heading before we have sex.

 

Although he did tell me that he did not want me to see my FWB anymore

 

My FWB asked if I hooked up with anyone, as my FWB contacts me daily. He initiates. He is lovely.

 

I said yes and told him about the new guy.

 

FWB said that he was a bit taken aback but he was happy for me and wishes me the very best.

 

We will deff hang out without the sexual element!

[Leigh 87]

BY the way, his name is Jack, he is not a big facebook person, he is 22 ( I am turning 26.

 

He is doing a commerce degree. I told him it sounded boring. He laughed and said it is interesting to him haha.

He is a bus driver while he studies part time. I am also part time, but 4 years older than him and in a social work degree ( which is a well paid degree in Australia and nothing like in the USA).

 

He has travelled a bit; to London and other places. I cannot become close to a man who has not left the country as I have travelled from a very young age and lived overseas.

 

He likes that I am very kind hearted.

He thinks I am funny to talk to.

He said I am the most interesting and funny girl he has met. Hmm, or maybe he has just not met many cool girls before?

 

 

 

My ex called me last night

 

By the way, my ex still calls me and says " hello darling" and " goodbye sweetie" and he still calls me babe.

He does not and has never done that with any other girl. I am 100% sure of that.

I love my ex very much and he makes me so happy to have him in my life. We do not hang out much as he cannot handle me with other guys yet and it is too soon to hang out.

 

He called me up last night and wanted me to pick him up from a friends and then he wanted to come to mine to hug me in bed at night while we slept.

 

And no he did not want sex - he pulled this crap after we broke up - he really did just love coming home with me to hug me in bed. I am positive he was looking very much forward to hugging with me again.

 

Anyways. I said HELL NO:lmao:

 

Fcken hell.

 

Oh but my ex makes me so happy still, it is so wonderful having a person in my life like Andrew; we make each other laugh a lot, we know we are always there for one another during any circumstance, and we ate genuinely very good friends.

 

We love each other as much as we love our own families still.

 

But yeah. I would not care if he met the love of his life tomorrow.

 

My ex does make my life so much happier though. Though I am glad it is not in a romantic sense anymore.

 

It is the past romance we shared though that has given us such a close bond, though.

 

There is no way in hell I would take him back if he came to my door and asked.

 

Even if I did not have Jack in the picture.

 

I know there is greater love out there for me, in a romantic sense.

 

Andrew and I are great as life long, genuinely best friends. Not as lovers or romantic partners.

 

I can see that now.

 

Andrew never made out with me for starters, albeit he did rarely. He did , however, kiss me a million times a day, but he did not make out with tongue often.

 

This guy just kisses me for minutes at a time:love::love::love::love::love::love:

 

Where as Andrew would just peck me on the lips often.

[Eternal Sunshine]

When will things happen for me. F-n hell :mad:

 

 

[LastLight]

Been nice following this thread today lol. Only 1 hour left? have fun!

[Leigh 87]

Sorry about all he grammar and spelling errors. I types too fast and I am also very tired after last night.

 

We did not get much sleep, Jack or I...

[Leigh 87]

When will things happen for me. F-n hell :mad:

 

 

 

 

 

I have no idea man...

 

I mean, I am just doing a basic degree that is a medium wage albeit with high earning potential down the track.

 

I have barley started my degree, I am not that hot to that many men I guess, and yeah.

 

You are way more accomplished than I am.

 

No idea why things won't happen for you.

 

I mean. It's not like your burping and not wearing deodorant on dates.

 

I doubt you would do anything to turn guys away:lmao:

 

I mean, by best friend is so immature when she drinks (she is just 21!) and she met the love of her life at a club, and she went up to him and said " nice penis"

 

She was smashed.

 

He is a very decent guy and is totally in love with her.

 

Go figure. Some people can act like idiots and still get a guy to like them?

 

Hmmm.

[Dzlez]

Hope he calls you

[Els]

Leigh.

 

 

Chill.

 

Chill.

 

Chill.

 

Chill.

 

CHILL.

 

 

 

Okay, now I've gotten my point across... , congratulations! I really hope things work out for you guys.

[Treasa]

Wait, when did you meet Jack? For the first time?

[truth_seeker]

Okay, I'm jealous of all of this lovey-dovey talk Where's my lady to roll around in bed with? #horny

[Kimmie80]

Good for you!! Im still waiting for my prince charming. But its nice to read stories like yours. Just shows that good things really do happen to good people Good luck!

[mesmerized]

Ok voice of reason here. It sounds really great!

 

But if you want this to take off and go somewhere I highly suggest that he takes you on a real date.

 

 

Inviting him over to chill and watch DVDs just makes it sound like you want to finish what you started last night.

 

 

And yes- CHILL THE EFF OUT! And enjoy.

 

Can't sympathize with women getting hurt all the time when they are so simple and wear their hearts on their sleeves like this. More people should tell her to chill than "omg, I'm so happy this happened for you". It's been like a couple of days for gods sake!

[snowflakes88]

Good for you! Always fun actually being excited about someone

 

That said, here's another vote for doing something non-sexual and outside of the house. You are already barreling full steam ahead in your mind - so much so that I think you'd be completely devastated if this devolved into a FWB situation. Try going on actual dates.

[CarrieT]

Leigh, what happened to waiting -- and growing -- for a year or two after your recent breakup with Andrew?!?!

 

This is awfully fast...

 

And I can tell you why it feels so different; because it is a different person. But I am afraid your issues still remain (how is therapy going?), so many of the same problems will rear their ugly heads...

[ScreamingTrees]

Good things are starting to happen for all the LS ladies! First Iris, then Seuss, now Leigh...maybe LS really does help people!

 

Good luck OP!

 

Or maybe good things happen to those who are patient and remain positive? Who knows for sure!

[ScreamingTrees]

Can't sympathize with women getting hurt all the time when they are so simple and wear their hearts on their sleeves like this. More people should tell her to chill than "omg, I'm so happy this happened for you". It's been like a couple of days for gods sake!

 

Why couldn't someone just enjoy the moment for what it is, rather than see it for what they think it probably isn't going to be?

 

She should already be aware that it may not work, all budding relationships are like that.. Which is why she claims to be so nervous and simultaneously giddy.. She's not wearing her heart on her sleeve because she enjoyed the guy's company and desires more..

 

I don't see the point in spreading negativity. Carrie's post is a bit unnerving, though. Leigh, I haven't followed everything so I'm not aware of any insecurities or anything like that, but I hope you're not going to ruin a *potentially* great thing for yourself.. !

[smile1983]

Good for you! Always fun actually being excited about someone

 

That said, here's another vote for doing something non-sexual and outside of the house. You are already barreling full steam ahead in your mind - so much so that I think you'd be completely devastated if this devolved into a FWB situation. Try going on actual dates.

I agree, I think OP is setting herself up for heartbreak by getting this excited about someone she's just met. That being said, I do hope things work out for the best OP, you seem like a sweet girl.

[mesmerized]

Why couldn't someone just enjoy the moment for what it is, rather than see it for what they think it probably isn't going to be?

 

She should already be aware that it may not work, all budding relationships are like that.. Which is why she claims to be so nervous and simultaneously giddy.. She's not wearing her heart on her sleeve because she enjoyed the guy's company and desires more..

 

I don't see the point in spreading negativity. Carrie's post is a bit unnerving, though. Leigh, I haven't followed everything so I'm not aware of any insecurities or anything like that, but I hope you're not going to ruin a *potentially* great thing for yourself.. !

 

She most probably is. What you don't understand that when women really like someone they start making things up that just wasn't there. She has met this guy for like a day, went home with him from a bar, there is no way she knows that the guy found this as amazing as she did and that's why she is nervous. Point is, a lot of this are probably in her head. Not saying these things never happen but...for the most part, real life is far from what you see in the movies or Disney cartoons for that matter.

[xxoo]

It's great to meet someone who lights you up. Enjoy it.

 

And give it a whole bunch of time before you project any future with the guy. Chemistry and compatibility are two different things. Chemistry is a great start, but compatibility needs to be proven over time.