bentleychic Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 Alrighty, since seeing your update and the fact that it's (sorta kinda) real, I would not say anything since it could effect your job. It sounds a bit like you really truly don't know the in's and out's of it, but may be more like you know rumors about it? Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 I don't understand where some see hypocrisy. Everyone...regardless of the alphabet soup label you have identified yourself with should have self respect. What I have an issue with...is all because another lives with none, does that mean we should? For me, everyone is responsible for their OWN actions. We can't point a finger at anyone else..and say "see...they have no morals ", and that in of itself gives us the RIGHT to act in exactly the same way. It doesn't. Our actions speak to our self respect. This also has been swirling in my head.... If the wife is a knowing accomplice ...is she really a bs? If there is no bs...is there really an ow? There is an OW, because she doesn't know the wife's in on it! She believes that she is the interloper. I'm interested to know if she's ok being the other once she's aware that she's not the "other". Once she knows the wife is aware, does the game change? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Betterthanthis13 Posted August 25, 2013 Author Share Posted August 25, 2013 Alrighty, since seeing your update and the fact that it's (sorta kinda) real, I would not say anything since it could effect your job. It sounds a bit like you really truly don't know the in's and out's of it, but may be more like you know rumors about it? I overheard it straight from the horses mouth, I don't know why she would say such a thing to so many people--maybe she subconsciously wants the girl to know....? She was pretty drunk. now that I think about it I have a feeling the gossip will travel even if I say nothing. I'm just going to wait and see if someone else says something. She was directly talking to like 3 other women, I just happened to be within earshot. I'm sure they have all been spreading rumors all day. I don't normally hang out with these people, but I'm sure ill get an update at some point if the rumor mill takes care of it. Link to post Share on other sites
bentleychic Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 Ewwww. Sounds like a hot mess that's definitely getting ready to explode. I'd definitely keep my distance from that mess. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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