Ben Steeve Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 (edited) hi guys well i have this problem , with this girl i know of first time i saw her was in a bank but she was hot and looking nice. like got a crush on her the moment i saw her. but funny thing was when i went to the bank the next day she was no long there i was like bummer misted her. i went back there with the intention to take her out for lunch and to get to know her. but she was not there any more. funny thing was she just start to work for the same company that i am working for i was like are you serious this is really really cool. then i went up to her and introduce my self and welcomed her in to the work forces. it was nice got her email. and her number but there was a problem. so i start to email her, got reply and she started to reply to my emails which was a start. but when i called her by her cellphone it just rings. so i was like just ignor it she must be busy so email her some more we would get into small message chains. but when i ask her to have lunch out of the office she likes say that she has something to finish or she cant go cause her boss needs her to do something or some thing always has to come up ... i know she likes me to some extent because she has not told me about her boyfriend and also i know she has one but she for some reason doesn't want to tell me...... i mean if someone was really in a relationship that she liked she would have told me that she is in a relationship. but she has not i am wondering why. cause i asked her that i really want to get to know her and she said and she like hehehehe and then said you will get to know me soon .... funny how she would say something like that when she has a boyfriend. so right now i am between ask her to be my girlfriend or just letting go of her and look for another girl. I mean i really like her and i will do any thing for her but she has to make a choice weather to say yes sure or no ...... so if you guys can help me out here cause kind of not sure what to do at the moment actually i don't want to give up but also i need to stay focus. I know this is something girls know about so girls help a guy out cause we only know one way to get a girl is that get her to bed and she will say yes even if she doesn't want to its biology and its natural. but thats is like winning a game with magic....which i dont want to do ... any comments will be great thanks all Edited August 25, 2013 by Ben Steeve Link to post Share on other sites
Waggoner9 Posted August 25, 2013 Share Posted August 25, 2013 You have to take it slow and show her you will be there for her even if she is not ready. Be the nice guy and if she is ready it will happen. When I met my wife we worked together. We had a date and everything went great. She told me after that she wasn't ready to be serious. I supported her decision and told her I would be there for her as a friend and I was. 25 years later one of the best decisions I ever made. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ben Steeve Posted August 25, 2013 Author Share Posted August 25, 2013 (edited) that will be hard ... I am afraid that if waiting she will not see me for who i am but what i will become i am reconzied by others a person who is raising up really fast and noticed as a very successful guy and i have just started working and people say that by a few years 1 or 2 i will be Assistance CEO and will be the youngest to have taken the role i am in my mid 20s i am afraid that she will not see me for who i am but what i have.......which is something i am careful of..... i dont have a problem with waiting but the view will constantly change with things that happen. Edited August 25, 2013 by Ben Steeve Link to post Share on other sites
farva2 Posted August 26, 2013 Share Posted August 26, 2013 might want to take her on a few dates before asking her to be your girl. Also, find out if shes single. Just cut the bull ask her "so you got a bf or what?" if she says no then ask her out for a date. Link to post Share on other sites
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