lovely221 Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 i recently went out on a date with this guy. We went and ate at my workplace(my ex also works there). He was working that night and even though he pretty much avoided me, I know he saw me. We broke up 4 months ago. Anyways a girl I work with told me that went I came in that night my ex goes "She's not making me jealous." Now was he being honest here or was he maybe jealous? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 I don't know if he was jealous so much as he was pissed that he thought you were trying to make him uncomfortable.. and jealous. Honestly... IMO it was kind of tacky to take your date where your recent EX works... but thats just me. Link to post Share on other sites
lostNconfusedx10 Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 i would say it definetly made him jealous. Thats not a cool thing to do, bring the new guy to the ex's place for dinner even though you do work thre too. He was prolly thinking you were trying to make him jealous, but in stead of jealous, you prolly made him mad Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovely221 Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 Well I hadn't planned on taking my date there. I had no clue whether or not my ex would even be working. The only reason we went there was because we both had to be somewhere at 9 and at 8:15 we were still looking for a place to eat quickly. We had tried several other restaurants prior and they all had at least a 45 minute wait. I didn't go in there trying to make my ex jealous. Plus I mean I don't consider 4 months a recent split. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovely221 Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 Why would he get mad if he dumped me? Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 Okay.. well thats just my opinion for what it's worth. IF my EX brought his date to where I worked, nothing could convince me that he wasn't going out of his way to try and make me jealous. And for what it's worth again.. it seems like you are pretty interested in the reaction you did get from him regarding all of this.. so that would lead me to believe that maybe you had ulterior motives for taking your new guy where there was a VERY good potential of your EX being. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovely221 Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 I respect your opinion but I know my motive for going there and believe me it had nothing to do with possibly making my ex jealous. Like I said, we haven't even been together for 4 months. It is over. I've moved on and believe he has as well. Sure I could understand going in there a month after the split being wrong, but 4 months? I also thought there was a VERY slim chance he would be working considering Friday is his day off. He had apparently picked up a shift for someone. If I really cared about his reaction I would've asked someone at work if he said anything about it. However, this coworker told me what he said without me even mentioning it. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 you obviously care about his reaction since you started a thread here about it... Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovely221 Posted November 12, 2004 Author Share Posted November 12, 2004 I started this thread because I wanted to know what some of you all thought of his reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted November 12, 2004 Share Posted November 12, 2004 which shows you care about his reaction. If you didnt care you would not have started the thread or would wonder about his reaction. I always chuckle when people say they don't care about something/someone but they focus time towards it or the person. Link to post Share on other sites
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