wizard08 Posted November 14, 2004 Share Posted November 14, 2004 Hi there, I have always wanted to know is there a way to tell if some-one of the opposite sex fancies you without ever talking to them. I mean there is the one girl but the truth being I think she is out of my league heck i would love to get to know her. And are there any signals or things that you should know that tell us the attraction is mutual between both parties (2 people). Basically are there any indicators that tell if she likes/ fancies me For instance i thought she looked at me and might have been looking at me but she could have been scanning the room. Let's put it this way how would you know? Link to post Share on other sites
Shuffty Posted November 15, 2004 Share Posted November 15, 2004 Well, i was mad about this lad i used to go to school with and let's just say i 'scanned the room' a hell of a lot whenever i knew he was there. Try catching her eye and see what her reaction is, you can tell a lot from a persons eyes. Someone once told me that when a girl likes a boy she plays with her hair just above her ear, twisting it in her fingers and stuff, because she's trying to draw your attention to her face and eyes. I dunno if that's true but it sounds plausible. And i also heard that when you like someone you mirror their body language and mannerisms, so watch out for that. Watch how she holds herself. It's all about body language really, you just have to look for the little things that give it away. You should talk to her, get to know her, she is a human being! Link to post Share on other sites
DJ_Dork Posted November 15, 2004 Share Posted November 15, 2004 If this girl wants to know about your life, tries to be your "friend" she may like you. If the girl's body is close to you. she may like you. Too hard to tell, that's why the guy has to make the moves - if the girl rejects him then you get your answer fast and you no longer need to frustrate yourself with thinking about her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wizard08 Posted November 17, 2004 Author Share Posted November 17, 2004 well, regarding body language she came quite close stood behind me and talked to somebody else she knew but everytime i see her i think i don't stand a chance and so never make a move. Well initially she was interested in me i think for over a year but lately she dosen't seem to bother. So i really don't know i mean other thing's she has done she was in a car with some-one and i passed her walking down the street and she just stared at me. What am i supposed to do it's killing me? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 Read some books on flirting and body language. They are pretty accurate. Link to post Share on other sites
DJ_Dork Posted November 17, 2004 Share Posted November 17, 2004 Originally posted by wizard08 well, regarding body language she came quite close stood behind me and talked to somebody else she knew but everytime i see her i think i don't stand a chance and so never make a move. Well initially she was interested in me i think for over a year but lately she dosen't seem to bother. So i really don't know i mean other thing's she has done she was in a car with some-one and i passed her walking down the street and she just stared at me. What am i supposed to do it's killing me? Then you have to test her reactions to validate her attraction to you. Each girl is different. Some girls will make create situations in which you have to hand her something (so you both can touch each other's hands.) Some girls who are more outgoing will outright want to give you hugs and have a tight body closeness to you. The first example I've given you is what shy/intro vert girls tend to do - the other example is what outgoing/extro vert girls tend to do but they are not easily read because they seem physically open with other people - this is where you have to kiss her and see what her reaction is. Link to post Share on other sites
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