psm04 Posted September 1, 2013 Share Posted September 1, 2013 I agree completely. When I started with him two years ago, their relationship was in shambles. I provided him with everything lacking, his mood and attitude improved greatly, eased the tension in their marriage and now it's wonderful and they live happily ever after. He says if I leave, it will fall apart. Tired of being the balm. She even admits that because of me things are good (she knows we are good friends) That is so selfish of him to basically use you so that he can continue existing in his marriage, and not have to face the issues within it. I feel like this is what my xOMM was doing in some ways, although he didn't really admit it. I never used him to improve my marriage. In fact, I felt even worse about it while I was active in the A. I guess for men, it's easier. You should be tired of being the balm. No one has to be that nice of a person to help the marriage of someone that they are in love with. It's ridiculous. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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