Author Babolat Posted September 30, 2013 Author Share Posted September 30, 2013 Well, I took a pretty big step, for me at least, this weekend. One of my female friends, not the 45 year old one, and I went out Friday night. After a couple of drinks she pretty much told me she does not want to date me, just have fun, and sex. She said she's been thinking about if for a while, wasn't sure if she could do it. I shared the same. Back to my house, 3 hours later she went home.....fill in the blanks. She texted me the next night asking if she could come over, of course, 4 hours later she went home. This is very new to me as I have never had sex with a woman outside of a relationship; and it's the first woman I have been with since my ex gf, and emotionally it was a challenge. In a very strange way though I think I needed this as I feel a lot better today. The ex gf texted me last night from 6PM to 10PM and I did not reply. I think the texting increased as I did not reply. And, I have no plans to reply. Not sure where the friend thing is going to go. I like her, I don't want to get into a serious relationship right now, which feels strange to say, but it also feels good to say as i am listening to myself for the first time in a long time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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