trying to get my wife to end a long standing swinger relationship

[aliveagain]

You said your wife was not a tool, you lied, what else would you call what your doing? I know exactly where your at, I have been a president, and a chairman of a public company, I 've made millions and I have lost millions but I have never sold my soul to get there. The secret about making money is once you know the secret of making it you can do it again. The other secret is you never get to keep it until you learn to share it, bring others along for the ride, then it's yours. People will trust you even if you fall because they know you know how to get there. Now I am an artist, a world traveler, don't need to worry about to many things anymore, I still have my soul.

 

You never represented yourself the way you really are in your first post, you made yourself very clear now. I hope things work out for you.

[The Shepherd]

If your wife's lover can get you fired so easily it doesn't sound like a great place to work.

Thanks a lot for this. It's not nice to have weaknesses which people can exploit you know. We need to eliminate them.

[Trimmer]

You never represented yourself the way you really are in your first post, you made yourself very clear now. I hope things work out for you.

Indeed - I feel like this has been a kind of Portrait of Dorian Gray scenario, where as the story has progressed, we've seen the OP transform from a troubled but relatively normal husband who basically appreciates his wife but for this one difficulty, into an ugly Scrooge who believes his wife is crazy, murderous, and brainless, and who sounds ready to dump her unceremoniously when the time is right to make the jump that will advance his career to the next level.

 

Apparently he's no longer the guy who said "I adore her and want her happy," the guy who said "she changed for the better for me and I love it," and "I love her for being a great mother and will never leave her nor my children."

[Sparty97]

The way this guy writes I have a hard believing he is the president of anything.

[Nyla]

My husband is an engineer. Before he met me, he had serious social problems. Falling in love with me has helped him out of his shell. One thing that never changed is that my husband would NEVER want to share me with someone else. Being an engineer has nothing to do with being a narcissist.

 

The world of big Politics , Hollywood , big companies , rich rich people is totally different than most people can imagine . they can do what they want because of political clout , or money , or fame . men screw other men's wives all the time , it is allowed to advance in the company . Sounds crazy as hell but it happens every single day .

 

No we are not boring nor do we live boring lives , but we can not do what we want to do , we must work for it . The extremely wealthy do things for manipulative reasons . So I am manipulating the son of my boss allowing him to screw my wife , so what . My wife really does not love me anyway , so there is no love loss . But outwardly I must show constant love for her . I don't abuse her, she is simply not a real person .

 

I am working on leaving this company in the next couple of years , but not now . I need to build up my resume' . Being President of a company looks good , even if it is a low level President job . My next job will be twice as big and the one after that twice as big as that one . All of this crap will be in the past .

 

Engineers become CEO's they are paid in the millions . I want to be a CEO one day , not a low level president , but I must pay my dues in life and step over each stone without falling . My wife will find another lover , she is still gorgeous , a drop dead knock out . because she is bi-polar Schizo it makes her sexually active much more than the average woman her age , just not with me . So in public I love my sweet wife

 

You sound very confused.

 

Either you want your wife to stop swinging or you are using her promiscuity to advance your career. Which is it?

Edited September 5, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[genesis.elle]

I've read the whole thread over lunch and this entire thing reads a lot like a murder mystery novel. This is too ridiculous to be true.

 

My first tip-off (which another poster mentioned just a few comments ago) is that the OP's writing skills leave much to be desired. It always frustrates me when people seem to have nice, cushy management jobs and are unable to string together a legible sentence. I thought he might have been using English as a second language, but he claims to be an American citizen living in Texas, and has been for some time.

 

The second is his purported undying love, affection, admiration, respect, and care for his wife, followed up with giving her some heavy medical conditions, insulting her left, right, and center, and basically saying he's been using this situation to manipulate his career.

 

Which is it, pal? When I'm concerned about someone I claim to love and support I don't start off by saying what a wonderful person they are and listing all their good qualities and how I'm indebted to them because they're so wonderful, and three pages later be afraid this person is going to kill me in my sleep and I don't really love them I just love to exploit this situation for my own benefit.

 

My smut sense is tingling and I just feel like this is a huge made-up story. Everyone has been more than helpful, providing all kids of suggestions and advice and everything is non-applicable and wouldn't work because of whatever insane excuse you seem to have (each one being bigger and more unbelievably sensational than the last).