The Truth , I am married to a Bi-Polar Schizophrenic person and it is so hard

[pie2]

Getting disability has became extremely easy since Obama he gives it for nothing , and it is also an individual thing , it has nothing to do with your marriage or your work , all it shows is your not able to work . you need to read about it

 

I'm pretty sure that household income has a lot to do with determining who gets Social Security Disability Income.

[kennedy37]

I'm pretty sure that household income has a lot to do with determining who gets Social Security Disability Income.

 

Bull**** , not a damn thing , it is your income and your disability , your social security number you obviously have never tried to apply , what happens to someone whom is not married or their spouse leaves them , or dies and has no income . It is your social Security number they go by , not your husbands or your wife , or your mothers or your fathers .

 

Obama made it so easy , I don't like it either , but my wife has her own social security number and her own work life experience . Your extremely young not to know this , are you a teenager , or simply never asked .

[todreaminblue]

sigh.......

 

i am glad you explained to em that the three posts were because you think i have knowledge of bpd shcizophrenic people......i might have thought that you

were being obsessive by repeating my posts.......i am kidding......

 

 

 

i dont know about bpd........i do knwo schizo affective i live with it, and i do understand depression i live with that, and mental illness in general i am empathic...but i also understand you......

 

 

seriously now....i dont think you are evil at all .....you are asking for advice on a very difficult and complicated situation...i think you are motivated by financial gain and social status to continue this behavior and stay married to your wife...that i dont agree with......i dont judge you for it...I just dont agree with living life that way....to me its selfish......but thats my opinion

 

 

i think you are at a loss to find a solution to your problem and that is because there is no factual solution for you.......the solutions are not ones you want to take or stand up for.........because you are now personally motivated to protect your assets and also your standing in the company you work for...no one can advise you of anything .....

 

 

 

 

you actually already know what needs to be done, you have mentioned what needs to be done and then say you cant do it.......and give reasons of finacial loss...thats not evil...its selfish and self serving.......

 

 

if yoru wife is happy doing what she is doing and you are happy with separate rooms and considerable personal gain........what advice do you need......

 

 

 

 

 

 

my advice is to leave your wife.....this isnt love.....and she is not right for you..she is extremely unwell by the sounds of it.....because you refuse to work on it together preferring to live with this way you are not helping her....a husband has a responsibility to the safety and welfare of his wife..as a wife does to a husband it is the most important mutual obligation you signed up for..she is at risk...and so are you

 

one question...where does she channel her illness(at the moment it is channeled into sexual acts causally....(not on her behalf btw it is no where near casual that she could move on from)..... when the young lover leaves?..her illness will probably intensify........and there you are....not doing anything.......actually encouraging this behavior...if i was just your wifes friend.....i would get her out of that home she lives in and get her the help she needs so she would be safe and could heal...and you would be safe...you could have such a different life.......do you realize this... do you love her so little that you would not?

 

have her committed court sanctioned if necessary.....save yourself a lot of angst and indecision...this is the solution you did not want to hear.........

 

if i were your wife and you were my husband...i would want you to commit me if i could not make that decision myself if i was really sick like your wife.....i would be a danger to myself and others....that turns my stomach to think of hurting someone..........or myself by being involved in illicit sordid sexual acts........yuk......but i am not as sick as your wife...she needs someone to love her and care for her....and you dont have the heart to do it....sad...i would do it......i actually have done it ...to my own mother to save her life.......she hated me when they came and got her....she loves me .....but not when she was sick.....she hated my guts when i put her in......i have my mother around loving me now because i did it...and it was hard....but i have a strong heart....that si willing to go through thick or thin for those i love....

 

 

personally i have been court ordered classed as a danger to myself.......loving friends and family ......arent i lucky.......wouldnt be here now if i wasnt court ordered and i hate going in to hospital tried to jump out of the car with an ordertly right beside me...because i was scared........... loathe it..scares me crap less...being locked up with some really violent individuals who are mainly men btw..... unable to see the water, concrete all around......its horrible...but it needed to be done....and i do not blame those that put me in...i love them.....and they love me....

 

 

 

see ...thats life....... and it involves love.........and hard decisions for husbands and or family....decision for your wife need to be made ...are you man enough to do it.....do you have a strong heart and how much do you feel for her try and remember your vows.....in sickness and in health...for better or worse....you promised her you promised god...and god doesnt care about how much money you make you wont hav ethat money at the mercy seat...he does care about promises made in a sanctified ceremony...i really do wish you well...hoep that your wife gets help soon....deb

Edited September 5, 2013 by todreaminblue

[kennedy37]

sigh.......

 

i am glad you explained to em that the three posts were because you think i have knowledge of bpd shcizophrenic people......i might have thought that you

were being obsessive by repeating my posts.......i am kidding......

 

 

 

i dont know about bpd........i do knwo schizo affective i live with it, and i do understand depression i live with that, and mental illness in general i am empathic...but i also understand you......

 

 

seriously now....i dont think you are evil at all .....you are asking for advice on a very difficult and complicated situation...i think you are motivated by financial gain and social status to continue this behavior and stay married to your wife...that i dont agree with......i dont judge you for it...I just dont agree with living life that way....to me its selfish......but thats my opinion

 

 

i think you are at a loss to find a solution to your problem and that is because there is no factual solution for you.......the solutions are not ones you want to take or stand up for.........because you are now personally motivated to protect your assets and also your standing in the company you work for...no one can advise you of anything .....

 

 

 

 

you actually already know what needs to be done, you have mentioned what needs to be done and then say you cant do it.......and give reasons of finacial loss...thats not evil...its selfish and self serving.......

 

 

if yoru wife is happy doing what she is doing and you are happy with separate rooms and considerable personal gain........what advice do you need......

 

 

 

 

 

 

my advice is to leave your wife.....this isnt love.....and she is not right for you..she is extremely unwell by the sounds of it.....because you refuse to work on it together preferring to live with this way you are not helping her....a husband has a responsibility to the safety and welfare of his wife..as a wife does to a husband it is the most important mutual obligation you signed up for..she is at risk...and so are you

 

one question...where does she channel her illness(at the moment it is channeled into sexual acts causally....(not on her behalf btw it is no where near casual that she could move on from)..... when the young lover leaves?..her illness will probably intensify........and there you are....not doing anything.......actually encouraging this behavior...if i was just your wifes friend.....i would get her out of that home she lives in and get her the help she needs so she would be safe and could heal...and you would be safe...you could have such a different life.......do you realize this... do you love her so little that you would not?

 

have her committed court sanctioned if necessary.....save yourself a lot of angst and indecision...this is the solution you did not want to hear.........

 

if i were your wife and you were my husband...i would want you to commit me if i could not make that decision myself if i was really sick like your wife.....i would be a danger to myself and others....that turns my stomach to think of hurting someone..........or myself by being involved in illicit sordid sexual acts........yuk......but i am not as sick as your wife...she needs someone to love her and care for her....and you dont have the heart to do it....sad...i would do it......i actually have done it ...to my own mother to save her life.......she hated me when they came and got her....she loves me .....but not when she was sick.....she hated my guts when i put her in......i have my mother around loving me now because i did it...and it was hard....but i have a strong heart....that si willing to go through thick or thin for those i love....

 

 

personally i have been court ordered classed as a danger to myself.......loving friends and family ......arent i lucky.......wouldnt be here now if i wasnt court ordered and i hate going in to hospital tried to jump out of the car with an ordertly right beside me...because i was scared........... loathe it..scares me crap less...being locked up with some really violent individuals who are mainly men btw..... unable to see the water, concrete all around......its horrible...but it needed to be done....and i do not blame those that put me in...i love them.....and they love me....

 

 

 

see ...thats life....... and it involves love.........and hard decisions for husbands and or family....decision for your wife need to be made ...are you man enough to do it.....do you have a strong heart and how much do you feel for her try and remember your vows.....in sickness and in health...for better or worse....you promised her you promised god...and god doesnt care about how much money you make you wont hav ethat money at the mercy seat...he does care about promises made in a sanctified ceremony...i really do wish you well...hoep that your wife gets help soon....deb

 

 

Thanks for replying , your very intelligent more so than anyone else whom have responded here . I have been married to her for nearly 13 years , Our oldest child is 11 years old, my second is 8 and is autistic . The first five years of our marriage were absolutely beautiful , so I reflect back on those years that i loved her constantly . Gradually she began to change and simply could not figure out why . About 6 years ago I took this job but as VP , and I began to have to travel , that is when I began to notice a change in her . I never cheated or her nor wanted to , she is a gorgeous knock out and I am nothing at all .

 

She got more and more bored with me , ran up a 27,000 dollar credit card bill and basically started doing crazy things . I make good money , about 340 k a year , gradually valedictorian in my small town class , went to Texas A&M , got a master in in Petroleum Engineering , my father was an engineer . but I have always been an introvert , was a virgin at graduation high school , had no sex in college except with prostitutes in Mexico . Went to work for George P. Mitchell , learned about Hydraulic Frac"ing , then got another job . Met my wife. Never had a woman before her , completely stupid about women .

 

She changed and did not know why, when we had our big fight took her to a Psychiatrist , she did many sessions and put her in a medical clinic for a month , said my wife has many many issues never told me about , I went to about 20 sessions with her . tried to get her to quit her lover , she refused . Only been knowing she is sick for 2 years now .

[kennedy37]

sigh.......

 

i am glad you explained to em that the three posts were because you think i have knowledge of bpd shcizophrenic people......i might have thought that you

were being obsessive by repeating my posts.......i am kidding......

 

 

 

i dont know about bpd........i do knwo schizo affective i live with it, and i do understand depression i live with that, and mental illness in general i am empathic...but i also understand you......

 

 

seriously now....i dont think you are evil at all .....you are asking for advice on a very difficult and complicated situation...i think you are motivated by financial gain and social status to continue this behavior and stay married to your wife...that i dont agree with......i dont judge you for it...I just dont agree with living life that way....to me its selfish......but thats my opinion

 

 

i think you are at a loss to find a solution to your problem and that is because there is no factual solution for you.......the solutions are not ones you want to take or stand up for.........because you are now personally motivated to protect your assets and also your standing in the company you work for...no one can advise you of anything .....

 

 

 

 

you actually already know what needs to be done, you have mentioned what needs to be done and then say you cant do it.......and give reasons of finacial loss...thats not evil...its selfish and self serving.......

 

 

if yoru wife is happy doing what she is doing and you are happy with separate rooms and considerable personal gain........what advice do you need......

 

 

 

 

 

 

my advice is to leave your wife.....this isnt love.....and she is not right for you..she is extremely unwell by the sounds of it.....because you refuse to work on it together preferring to live with this way you are not helping her....a husband has a responsibility to the safety and welfare of his wife..as a wife does to a husband it is the most important mutual obligation you signed up for..she is at risk...and so are you

 

one question...where does she channel her illness(at the moment it is channeled into sexual acts causally....(not on her behalf btw it is no where near casual that she could move on from)..... when the young lover leaves?..her illness will probably intensify........and there you are....not doing anything.......actually encouraging this behavior...if i was just your wifes friend.....i would get her out of that home she lives in and get her the help she needs so she would be safe and could heal...and you would be safe...you could have such a different life.......do you realize this... do you love her so little that you would not?

 

have her committed court sanctioned if necessary.....save yourself a lot of angst and indecision...this is the solution you did not want to hear.........

 

if i were your wife and you were my husband...i would want you to commit me if i could not make that decision myself if i was really sick like your wife.....i would be a danger to myself and others....that turns my stomach to think of hurting someone..........or myself by being involved in illicit sordid sexual acts........yuk......but i am not as sick as your wife...she needs someone to love her and care for her....and you dont have the heart to do it....sad...i would do it......i actually have done it ...to my own mother to save her life.......she hated me when they came and got her....she loves me .....but not when she was sick.....she hated my guts when i put her in......i have my mother around loving me now because i did it...and it was hard....but i have a strong heart....that si willing to go through thick or thin for those i love....

 

 

personally i have been court ordered classed as a danger to myself.......loving friends and family ......arent i lucky.......wouldnt be here now if i wasnt court ordered and i hate going in to hospital tried to jump out of the car with an ordertly right beside me...because i was scared........... loathe it..scares me crap less...being locked up with some really violent individuals who are mainly men btw..... unable to see the water, concrete all around......its horrible...but it needed to be done....and i do not blame those that put me in...i love them.....and they love me....

 

 

 

see ...thats life....... and it involves love.........and hard decisions for husbands and or family....decision for your wife need to be made ...are you man enough to do it.....do you have a strong heart and how much do you feel for her try and remember your vows.....in sickness and in health...for better or worse....you promised her you promised god...and god doesnt care about how much money you make you wont hav ethat money at the mercy seat...he does care about promises made in a sanctified ceremony...i really do wish you well...hoep that your wife gets help soon....deb

 

I know I am crazy but I will never leave my wife , just wish she would change or get help , I beg her constantly .

[kennedy37]

sigh.......

 

i am glad you explained to em that the three posts were because you think i have knowledge of bpd shcizophrenic people......i might have thought that you

were being obsessive by repeating my posts.......i am kidding......

 

 

 

i dont know about bpd........i do knwo schizo affective i live with it, and i do understand depression i live with that, and mental illness in general i am empathic...but i also understand you......

 

 

seriously now....i dont think you are evil at all .....you are asking for advice on a very difficult and complicated situation...i think you are motivated by financial gain and social status to continue this behavior and stay married to your wife...that i dont agree with......i dont judge you for it...I just dont agree with living life that way....to me its selfish......but thats my opinion

 

 

i think you are at a loss to find a solution to your problem and that is because there is no factual solution for you.......the solutions are not ones you want to take or stand up for.........because you are now personally motivated to protect your assets and also your standing in the company you work for...no one can advise you of anything .....

 

 

 

 

you actually already know what needs to be done, you have mentioned what needs to be done and then say you cant do it.......and give reasons of finacial loss...thats not evil...its selfish and self serving.......

 

 

if yoru wife is happy doing what she is doing and you are happy with separate rooms and considerable personal gain........what advice do you need......

 

 

 

 

 

 

my advice is to leave your wife.....this isnt love.....and she is not right for you..she is extremely unwell by the sounds of it.....because you refuse to work on it together preferring to live with this way you are not helping her....a husband has a responsibility to the safety and welfare of his wife..as a wife does to a husband it is the most important mutual obligation you signed up for..she is at risk...and so are you

 

one question...where does she channel her illness(at the moment it is channeled into sexual acts causally....(not on her behalf btw it is no where near casual that she could move on from)..... when the young lover leaves?..her illness will probably intensify........and there you are....not doing anything.......actually encouraging this behavior...if i was just your wifes friend.....i would get her out of that home she lives in and get her the help she needs so she would be safe and could heal...and you would be safe...you could have such a different life.......do you realize this... do you love her so little that you would not?

 

have her committed court sanctioned if necessary.....save yourself a lot of angst and indecision...this is the solution you did not want to hear.........

 

if i were your wife and you were my husband...i would want you to commit me if i could not make that decision myself if i was really sick like your wife.....i would be a danger to myself and others....that turns my stomach to think of hurting someone..........or myself by being involved in illicit sordid sexual acts........yuk......but i am not as sick as your wife...she needs someone to love her and care for her....and you dont have the heart to do it....sad...i would do it......i actually have done it ...to my own mother to save her life.......she hated me when they came and got her....she loves me .....but not when she was sick.....she hated my guts when i put her in......i have my mother around loving me now because i did it...and it was hard....but i have a strong heart....that si willing to go through thick or thin for those i love....

 

 

personally i have been court ordered classed as a danger to myself.......loving friends and family ......arent i lucky.......wouldnt be here now if i wasnt court ordered and i hate going in to hospital tried to jump out of the car with an ordertly right beside me...because i was scared........... loathe it..scares me crap less...being locked up with some really violent individuals who are mainly men btw..... unable to see the water, concrete all around......its horrible...but it needed to be done....and i do not blame those that put me in...i love them.....and they love me....

 

 

 

see ...thats life....... and it involves love.........and hard decisions for husbands and or family....decision for your wife need to be made ...are you man enough to do it.....do you have a strong heart and how much do you feel for her try and remember your vows.....in sickness and in health...for better or worse....you promised her you promised god...and god doesnt care about how much money you make you wont hav ethat money at the mercy seat...he does care about promises made in a sanctified ceremony...i really do wish you well...hoep that your wife gets help soon....deb

 

I fully admit to allowing my wife to be used for sex in order to keep my job , but frankly she loves it and would have it no other way . She is a good mother , she has a Nanny , a house keeper and a tutor that comes by for my son . So she has life really easy .

 

I am not a really good looking guy , just normal , never had a woman come on to me in my entire life , and beside not looking . Wife only married me to leave her environment she hated at home . She says I remind her of her father so much and she hated her father and her mother with a passion .

 

She gets a small check for mental disability , . At least now she has a beautiful home in an exclusive part of north Houston , and every amenity she could ever want . I have no idea why she is in love with her lover other than sex . But I still love her regardless

[todreaminblue]

Thanks for replying , your very intelligent more so than anyone else whom have responded here . I have been married to her for nearly 13 years ,

 

 

 

Met my wife. Never had a woman before her , completely stupid about women .

 

She changed and did not know why, when we had our big fight took her to a Psychiatrist , she did many sessions and put her in a medical clinic for a month , said my wife has many many issues never told me about , I went to about 20 sessions with her . tried to get her to quit her lover , she refused . Only been knowing she is sick for 2 years now .

 

 

 

you have had really thoughtful replies on here from other posters ...very open and honest ones,sharing their experiences with you i am not more intelligent......just as honest as them, just as open......sharing my experience...

 

i actually can be quite stupid.....and goofy.....and totally random

 

 

2 years is too long....your only solution is to get her help again...with mental illness it is most likely that people who have mental illness need help more than once........she needs help now...not six months from now......but now today asap.......court sanction is your solution......speak to the doctor who dealt with her before.....when i am really sick.....a team of shrinks help me..i work with an acute care team......get your wife the supports he needs as her husband, you have that god given right doesnt matter you have not ben with a woman before...you are married to one now...so help her.......and actually courts will agree it is your right.....the marriage license enforces that...get the doctor on board....you have a solution......that will work if you follow through and actually do it...........good luck kennedy.......support is there fo ryou seek it out...and maybe a prayer or two to say thanks to god above you followed through and did it.... when you realize its the best thing you ever did for you and for her...best wishes..deb

Edited September 5, 2013 by todreaminblue

[kennedy37]

you have had really thoughtful replies on here from other posters ...very open and honest ones,sharing their experiences with you i am not more intelligent......just as honest as them, just as open......sharing my experience...

 

i actually can be quite stupid.....and goofy.....and totally random

 

 

2 years is too long....your only solution is to get her help again...with mental illness it is most likely that people who have mental illness need help more than once........she needs help now...not six months from now......but now today asap.......court sanction is your solution......speak to the doctor who deal with her before.....when i am really sick.....a team of shrinks help me..i work with an acute care team......get your wife the supports he needs as her husband, you have that god given right doesnt matter you have not ben with a woman before...you are married to one now...so help her.......and actually courts will agree it is your right.....the marriage license enforces that...get the doctor on board....you have a solution......that will work if you follow through and actually do it...........good luck kennedy.......support is there fo ryou seek it out...and maybe a prayer or two to say thanks to god above you followed through and did it.... when you realize its the best thing you ever did for you and for her...best wishes..deb

 

I will discuss this with her Doctor and see if this can be arranged , I do not know the law regarding this in Texas . I will do anything and everything to keep her . I will commit her , have her in and institution , remove her physically if I can , even quit my job if that is what it takes . But my next job not will not be any better, People like me must move and accept responsibility , or work for low pay . Your the first person whom has said this to me and I will spend days finding out when I get back to Houston . My marriage and wife are worth it , My children deserve a good father and mother . But I have a dark side too , I have been very hurt by her and at times say let her screw herself to death . I will do my best . Thanks so much.

[todreaminblue]

I will discuss this with her Doctor and see if this can be arranged , I do not know the law regarding this in Texas . I will do anything and everything to keep her . I will commit her , have her in and institution , remove her physically if I can , even quit my job if that is what it takes . But my next job not will not be any better, People like me must move and accept responsibility , or work for low pay . Your the first person whom has said this to me and I will spend days finding out when I get back to Houston . My marriage and wife are worth it , My children deserve a good father and mother . But I have a dark side too , I have been very hurt by her and at times say let her screw herself to death . I will do my best . Thanks so much.

 

 

i am sure yrou wife woudl rather have a husband with a low paying job who loved her enough when she was sick to do the right thing by her

 

 

rather than have a husband who worked as some hotshot with mega dollars to buy her a manicure and gucci but also who didnt give her the time of day when she was sick.....trust me your marriage is worth more than money, your children are the future generation that you need to guide and if you do this ...you are showing them how to be...a loving husband and father who never gave up no matter how sick she was and made their presents at xmas time instead of getting a receptionist to purchase them...

 

i believe you can do it kennedy...i am hardly ever wrong when i say "you can do it i know you can" to someone....prayers your way from me...i wish nothing but the best for you and your family.....deb

[janedoe67]

So basically she has bipolar disorder and schizophrenia that I assume is not being well treated. And you are a narcissitic user who would rather keep his wife in a destructive, damaging, unhealthy cycle in order to make the big bucks than love her enough to get her REAL help.

 

Don't get me wrong; what she has done/is doing is destructive and reprehensible. But your selfishness at her expense is astounding.

[kennedy37]

So basically she has bipolar disorder and schizophrenia that I assume is not being well treated. And you are a narcissitic user who would rather keep his wife in a destructive, damaging, unhealthy cycle in order to make the big bucks than love her enough to get her REAL help.

 

Don't get me wrong; what she has done/is doing is destructive and reprehensible. But your selfishness at her expense is astounding.

 

No I am not a narcissist , Hurt yes , frustrated yes , have tried and tried and tried . Unless there is violence or threat of violence normally they do very little to make someone do something . I may appear cold and callas but that is just because I can not tell you everything . I will take the advice of the other poster and try and get her committed , at least long enough to get her on the right road to recovery , without her going even more crazy . I care I care I care

[Nyla]

Bull**** , not a damn thing , it is your income and your disability , your social security number you obviously have never tried to apply , what happens to someone whom is not married or their spouse leaves them , or dies and has no income . It is your social Security number they go by , not your husbands or your wife , or your mothers or your fathers .

 

Obama made it so easy , I don't like it either , but my wife has her own social security number and her own work life experience . Your extremely young not to know this , are you a teenager , or simply never asked .

 

The bolded part is a complete lie. Spouse's income falls under "household income." So if a sick person has a rich spouse, the government will not give the sick person money because the rich spouse can afford to take care of that person.

 

Based on some of your other threads and this answer you gave, your story is sounding increasingly unbelievable and made up. There are too many contradictions and inconsistencies. Either you don't want your wife swinging or you are using her to advance your career. Which is it?

[kennedy37]

The bolded part is a complete lie. Spouse's income falls under "household income." So if a sick person has a rich spouse, the government will not give the sick person money because the rich spouse can afford to take care of that person.

 

Based on some of your other threads and this answer you gave, your story is sounding increasingly unbelievable and made up. There are too many contradictions and inconsistencies. Either you don't want your wife swinging or you are using her to advance your career. Which is it?

 

This not true

[kennedy37]

i am sure yrou wife woudl rather have a husband with a low paying job who loved her enough when she was sick to do the right thing by her

 

 

rather than have a husband who worked as some hotshot with mega dollars to buy her a manicure and gucci but also who didnt give her the time of day when she was sick.....trust me your marriage is worth more than money, your children are the future generation that you need to guide and if you do this ...you are showing them how to be...a loving husband and father who never gave up no matter how sick she was and made their presents at xmas time instead of getting a receptionist to purchase them...

 

i believe you can do it kennedy...i am hardly ever wrong when i say "you can do it i know you can" to someone....prayers your way from me...i wish nothing but the best for you and your family.....deb

 

Hi again, you are the only one I have found that actually gives good advice not based on prejudging . I am desperate and depressed afraid the world that I have built is about to come crashing down . Ok the first person I called was my Lawyer , I must have a plan to protect myself and be ready for a law suit . Most are not successful because wealthy people have much better Lawyers . I am afraid of revenge of the son of the owner .

 

I must wait almost 2 weeks to get an appointment with the university of Texas Neurology Group , Dr. Schultz a doctor whom specializes in Bi-Polar Schizophrenic Disorders , I want a new Doctor and start from the beginning .

 

This is the end of my posts , i finally found someone that shows how serious my situation is . I have not taken things seriously enough nor gotten involved . I am wrong on many issues . I simply let her have her way , I cared but not enough to risk destroying my career . I now know I have no choice .

 

the Doctor is for her, the Lawyer is for me , with me you must be blunt without slander , few people know how to do that , you do .

 

Thanks so much and I wish you full recovery and a long life . My battle has just gotten started , I have to prepare for the worst , so naturally I am empty .

 

God Bless you

[kennedy37]

The bolded part is a complete lie. Spouse's income falls under "household income." So if a sick person has a rich spouse, the government will not give the sick person money because the rich spouse can afford to take care of that person.

 

Based on some of your other threads and this answer you gave, your story is sounding increasingly unbelievable and made up. There are too many contradictions and inconsistencies. Either you don't want your wife swinging or you are using her to advance your career. Which is it?

 

 

You automatically assume so many things , that we file under the same Tax form , and show a house hold income , and that people actually tell the truth to the government . They do not . 47 million Americans receive supplemental food , and Medicaid , Most Disability claims are bogus and never correctly investigated , they simply do not have the people to investigate . It is done by phone or by email or by paper work completed . With a Doctor signing off on it . Fraud has sky rocketed and no one is doing anything about it , Texas does not even investigate claims , they only take down the information and have a office in Austin , but rarely do they actually investigate . It is simply political and a joke . They go after the big boys and not individuals the way they are supposed to .

 

Obama has made it extremely easy to do so many things . Applicants lie constantly , no one investigates .

 

Your morality may be correct, but your reality is missing .

 

I do thank you because you mean well and are probably a really great person whom simply does not know . You responded and I thank you so much , I owe you a debt of gratitude for that . so you are legit and real for that . My mind is not the same as it used to be and I have had emotional and mental break downs , yet I can never tell anyone the truth .

 

I have made terrible mistakes and regret it so much , I ask God for guidance to help me think clearly . I will see what happens .

 

I wish you to have a long and happy marriage , your a great woman and your husband is a very lucky man . I wish my wife were like you in so many ways , your straight forward and think clearly . I do not think you lie to your husband like My wife does constantly .

 

May God bless you and make your life good forever .

[Nyla]

You automatically assume so many things , that we file under the same Tax form , and show a house hold income , and that people actually tell the truth to the government . They do not . 47 million Americans receive supplemental food , and Medicaid , Most Disability claims are bogus and never correctly investigated , they simply do not have the people to investigate . It is done by phone or by email or by paper work completed . With a Doctor signing off on it . Fraud has sky rocketed and no one is doing anything about it , Texas does not even investigate claims , they only take down the information and have a office in Austin , but rarely do they actually investigate . It is simply political and a joke . They go after the big boys and not individuals the way they are supposed to .

 

Obama has made it extremely easy to do so many things . Applicants lie constantly , no one investigates .

 

Your morality may be correct, but your reality is missing .

 

I do thank you because you mean well and are probably a really great person whom simply does not know . You responded and I thank you so much , I owe you a debt of gratitude for that . so you are legit and real for that . My mind is not the same as it used to be and I have had emotional and mental break downs , yet I can never tell anyone the truth .

 

I have made terrible mistakes and regret it so much , I ask God for guidance to help me think clearly . I will see what happens .

 

I wish you to have a long and happy marriage , your a great woman and your husband is a very lucky man . I wish my wife were like you in so many ways , your straight forward and think clearly . I do not think you lie to your husband like My wife does constantly .

 

May God bless you and make your life good forever .

 

I agree that applicants lie to get on the dole and manage to stay under the radar while collecting illegally, but I don't think that nobody ever investigates claims.

 

God helps those who help themselves. Remember that.

 

You can choose to look for a new job and move your family away from all of the mess that has occurred. You can reclaim your wife and your marriage, as well as stop accepting her refusal to stay healthy. It is all up to you; life is about choices.

 

Thanks for the marriage wishes. I hope I stay married forever too. Our anniversary is next month.