Sex Goddess Posted January 6, 2001 Share Posted January 6, 2001 Hi I just got your question posted waaaaaaaaaayyyy below!!! You asked me about 4-8 orgasms during sex. Yes, those orgasms are all during intercourse alone, or by fondling the area by my partner. I didn't overnite go from no orgasms to being multi orgasmic if that is the correct term. It has been a process of probably 10 years or more, with no special trying on my part. I do not orgasm during foreplay, and do not usually orgasm in the missionary style, unless I am extremely into the guy. I just throw myself into the sexual situation and block everything else out. I also do NOT focus on having an orgasm. I think that totally ruins the mood. I think it is hard to have an orgasm when you are concentrating on having one. As far as me, I am just your average female. Pretty fit, but not hugely athletic. Age, early thirties. Also, I SWEAR I am not exxagerating, if this had not happened to me, I would not believe it, but I once dated this guy for a brief period of time, that could actually orgams(and dispense fluid), for about 4-5 times a night from like 9 PM to 9 AM. He was extremely sexually charged, and would wake me up in the middle of the night once or twice.... It was an incredibly sexual relationship with no other substance, however, I had NO earthly idea that a man was capable of coming that many times. NOw how bizarre is that? The men I have known(which aren't that many), could only come twice, if they were having a good night, and that was spaced out with a couple of hours in between... But this guy was like a machine.....However, he was not by any means my best lover..... Sex does get soooo much better as you get older. Do other ladies (or gents) agree with me? I didn't think coming 4-8 times was that many, what is the normal amount ladies? I'm curious now Link to post Share on other sites
Stargazer Posted January 6, 2001 Share Posted January 6, 2001 Thanx Sex Goddess, There's hope for me yet! I dream of having an orgasm during intercourse.........I can certainly have a clitoral orgasm, that's another beast. I think you may have hit the nail on the head with your comment about not focusing on it. Will try! Many Thanks again Warm Hugs Link to post Share on other sites
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