I'm completely in love with my ex.

[Curt2013]

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I'm completely in love with my ex. We're both in our 30's. We dated for 6 months and during the last month she had been worried about everything but me. To be honest I felt like I became a lower priority to her. I hated that. SHe suggested we stayed friends, I said NO WAY and that I needed time to forget her. After 2 weeks of NC she texts me the usual "how are you? hope you're doing well" and I stupidly responded "fine, how's things with you?". She responded an hour later with "all good here, thx". a few days later she does the same and I responded again.(I know, stupid!).

 

Finally 2 days ago I have a weak moment and try to call her about 6PM and goes into voicemail so I leave a message saying I wanted to talk about something and that I hoped she was doing well....she never calls me back and finally on the following day I get a text " got your VM, all good here", I respond with " I was calling about possibly going on that hike with discussed 2 weeks ago and also to check and see how you were doing." Since she contacted me several times I stupidly thought she wanted to patch things up so I reached out and proposed we do something outdoors. She responds with "I'm going to a car show with my dad during that weekend, you should go too and bring your brother's old classic". I finally read between the lines and respond with "OK" nothing more. I was pissed and and hurt by her coldness. She said nothing about ME checking on her or suggested any other possible days we could possibly go on a hike. So I'm full on NC now. The problem is we will see each other in 10 days from now since we work in the same area and attend the same meeting 2 times a week. What do I do if she says hi and want to talk then? Do I respond or do I just say "hey" and walk away. I really want to try this NC all the way but I don't want to be rude and not respond if she speaks with me. If I act cold and weird I think she may think I'm really being affected by this and acting like this will only show her that I still care. I also don't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that I'm hurting. Thanks for your input.

Edited September 3, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator