jenn78 Posted September 7, 2013 Share Posted September 7, 2013 I just realized it has been 30 days of NC. My ex texted me on the 25th asking if we would ever be able to be in the same place... because i perviously told him i would not be able to do that as it would be too difficult for me. My ex and i have been broken up for just under 3 months. I can definitely say I am a lot better than i was before. I still have days where it is a little hard to get out of bed and be happy because i miss him and i focus on the fact he is probably with someone else. I hungout with two of our mutual friends recently. They told me how my ex had issues before he met me and he needs to work on those. It was nice to hear in a sense because i felt like i did everything wrong and thats why we broke up. At least he can hold some of the blame. My stomach still drops when someone mentions his name. I still get incredibly sad when i think he has probably slept with other girls and is also in process of moving on. I still kick myself for having the thought that we would spend forever together. I know one day I will feel better and one day I will fall in love again.. but as for now its still small steps forward with a few steps backwards every so often. For all you recent dumpees... it gets easier so keep your chin up and focus on you. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted September 7, 2013 Share Posted September 7, 2013 I know one day I will feel better and one day I will fall in love again.. but as for now its still small steps forward with a few steps backwards every so often. It sounds to me like you've made one of the biggest steps possible. Link to post Share on other sites
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