spacey Posted September 8, 2013 Share Posted September 8, 2013 I met a gal and this one another guy at a meet.up com event and we started hanging out.Soon she bought her best friend and she and that guy started dating and the 3 of them became a clique.Interestingly another guy started hanging out with us. I believe he started hanging out with us as he liked me.I liked him as well and continued hanging out with this group though I could never really connect with the 2 women and I felt like an outsider with the gals and the first guy being a clique. A lot of my hanging out probably had to do with this guy I liked and the other guy who would invite me to hangout with these folks but I kind of think the women secretly resented me though they would be really nice to the guy I liked. Anytime I mentioned that I did not feel welcome that guy I liked would just brush it off as my imagination as these gals were really sweet to him. The women I feel wanted to cut me off as they considered me competition. So now the guy I fancied has moved out of town and I am wondering if I should cut all my ties off with these folks ? I really feel no warmth. I am wondering if I should keep any ties with these folks just to not make it seem like I vanished the moment the guy I fancied left town but in all honesty I don't care much about the friendship of these 2 women and barely tolerate them and they are very mean to me. Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted September 9, 2013 Share Posted September 9, 2013 I don't care much about the friendship of these 2 women and barely tolerate them and they are very mean to me. I think you've pretty much answered your own question here. There's no reason to continue being friends with people you don't like just to keep up appearances. Link to post Share on other sites
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