Author pears Posted September 20, 2014 Author Share Posted September 20, 2014 Thanks everyone. I keep rereading these to give me strength. He's been ok with NC. But just got a text. "I'm trying hard to leave you alone but please please don't forget about me." On one hand I want to write back "I wish I could forget about you" On the other I want to write back "I won't" Trying to just leave my phone elsewhere so I'm not tempted at all. I keep having conversations and arguments with myself playing both our parts. I feel insane. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 To make NC work, it is imperative that you block him from email, phone, text, and every other technology and portal. If you can't do this, then I'd suggest a new phone number. Every whiny, sappy chainjerking text is otherwise going to trouble you and be painful. A potentially good way to make sure he never contacts you again is to inform his wife. Maybe a last chance text: "stop contacting me. next text or email, im sending the whole packet to your wife". That will give you the peace you need to heal. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 He asked if he could still text me. I said no. He asked how I would know how much he is thinking of me. Translation: "How can I control you from long-distance?" I don't know... you know him, not me. But something about that statement creeps me out a little. I told him while I will never understand his decision I will respect it. But he needs to understand that that has consequences. And the consequence is he no longer has me. I hope the beach is worth it. Good for you pears!! You're totally doing the right thing here. I love everything you've said and done to end it. It's good for you, good for him, and even good for whatever relationship you might have with him in the future. You are teaching him how to treat you. I hope you continue on this path with him and with anybody else you date in the future. And I hope none of them will be married men!! It's just bad juju all around to get involved with 'em. They're bad news, plain and simple. Stick with it!!! I know you can do this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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