teressa0397 Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 PLEASE LADIES OR MEN DONT HAVE AN AFFAIR ITS NOT WORTH IT: IT DESTROYS LIVES- IAM A SAMPLE HERE I NO FROM THE HEART SOUL BODY MIND: ALL I DO IS CRY IAM STILL NOT OVER HIM BUT IAM TRYING WITH ALL OF MY HEART WHAT IS RIGHT: IT HURTS WHEN I SEE HIM GO BY___ITS HURTS WHEN I SEE HIM OUT I JUST WANT TO GRABBED HIM: PLEASE ONCE AGAIN DONT HAVE AN AFFAIR: IF YOU WANT TO SEE SOME ONE DOING IT UP RIGHT:??????????? thanks teressa0397 Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Where you the one cheated on or you were the one cheating? Just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 I was wondering the same...are you the cheater or cheated? Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Quite possibly the betrayer: "BUT IAM TRYING WITH ALL OF MY HEART WHAT IS RIGHT" Why would a BS do what is right.......that is surely up to the cheater? Link to post Share on other sites
Barby Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Yeah that makes sense... Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 I think this is very good advice. I've been with Mrs. Moose for nearly 17 years and have never cheated. As far as I know, neither has Mrs. Moose. So I really can't say that I've been in teresa's situation. But, both of my sisters were unfaithfull to their husbands and now their lives are miserable. They both have kids and it's really hard on them to plan around each other's custody times, and then you have the new step-moms cutting their hair, piercing their bellies, things that only mom should make a decision on. This isn't the worst. Seeing your ex will kill you everytime. I know this from watching my sisters. I don't know how to describe it, but they act all pissed off, when really they just want to lock themselves up and cry. I don't think either one of them is over the other. Then there's the alimony they have to pay....then last but not least, the final price to pay will be when you meet your maker, or at least that's what some of us believe. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLuck Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Well said Moose and congrats on 17 years of marriage btw My husband left me for the OW some three years back and he still feels an enormous of guilt over what he did. I still see that guilt in his face and in his eyes and to this day. I wonder sometimes, is he truly happy, but I doubt it. How can a cheater ever be truly happy, in knowing the devastation and heartache they brought about and through their own selfish needs. In knowing that their own kids who undoutedly they miss terribly, are no longer in their lives and because of their own selfish needs. How does a cheater feel when his ex wife will find herself a man, a man of whom eventually she may want to marry and that man who will then take over the role of 'dad' to the cheaters kids!! How will the cheater feel in years to come, when his kids look down upon him and have little respect for the dad who so easily walked out on their mum and themselves. There's an awful lot of things to consider I think, before you consider cheating!! Fortunately I'm over what my cheater did and I now sleep peacefully at night. I highly doubt that the cheater in my life does the same!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author teressa0397 Posted November 19, 2004 Author Share Posted November 19, 2004 yes i'am the cheater i no i have done rong i am faces up to it finally; i want out cant live like this any more; i want my life back to normal; i want to be me again; [thanks teressa0397] Link to post Share on other sites
inturmoil Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 My sentiments exactly!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tragedi67 Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 I was cheated on over a year ago by my now ex-husband. We were together three years, only married one. He met this woman whom works with him and he started spending all his time at her house (mind you she lives with her parents and is over 30!). We work at the same company, same shift but different buildings (thank god for that now!). He admitted to me that he had been cheating around my birthday of 2003. It was a month after that, that we separated. I know that he's not happy, he's just trying to pretend like he is. I still miss him, but wouldn't take him back because he never went to counseling with me. So basically he gave up and left me. I to this day still hurt when I see him with the other woman, but I know I'm much better off. Cheating is a big deal in my book and I'm now still trying with new relationships to gain that trust in men again. I have never cheated, and I hope I never will. So I can relate by having been the one who was cheated on, but you need to forgive yourself, hope that he'll forgive you and move on if it comes to that. Link to post Share on other sites
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