Puma Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 ok peeps need advise....after 1 1/2 weeks now of no contact and being broken up, she finally contacted me yesterday via text msg on phone. it was simple questions just askin me how i was and how was everything..she told me that she has been haning out with her mom a lot more which is good cause she never was that close to her mom until we started dating and things just went well after taht. so my question is..now that she has made the initial contact..where does that leave me? should i contact her as well just to say hi and good day n stuff..or should i just let her just attempt to contact me???? please help anyone with any suggestions Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 wait for another 48 hours, if she contacts you during this time then you contact her back immediately. if she does not contact you agian within 48 hrs then you reply back to her initial question but keep it short and sweet and be very vague about everything you say. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Puma Posted November 18, 2004 Author Share Posted November 18, 2004 well i had replied back last night since she text me in the mornin...but now that she has contacted me should i jsut wait till she contacts me again? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 wait until she contacts u again but don't reply right away. give it a day or two Link to post Share on other sites
Author Puma Posted November 18, 2004 Author Share Posted November 18, 2004 sounds good tahnks!!if i were to contact her sooner it would be at her conven ience huh? thats not good..whole purpose is tryin to get her back afterall Link to post Share on other sites
bnakach Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 In my opinion she took the first step of trying to talk to you, I mean that show's that she cares for you. Who broke things off? Why play games? You both obviously love each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Puma Posted November 18, 2004 Author Share Posted November 18, 2004 she broek things off for space and time thing..i have the whole deal on my other post on here "space..time=get her back?" and i wasnt even sure if she would even contact me to be honest..im happy now though, just still confused as to what to do. and yes if she did contact me it shows she was at least thinkin of me to do so right? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Originally posted by bnakach You both obviously love each other. Where exactly did you glean the above info from. I don't see him saying anything about them both being the loves of each other's lives. What draws you to this conclusion??? Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale wait for another 48 hours, if she contacts you during this time then you contact her back immediately. if she does not contact you agian within 48 hrs then you reply back to her initial question but keep it short and sweet and be very vague about everything you say. That sounds wise to me - you don't want to come off as desperate & she did want more space, right? and yes if she did contact me it shows she was at least thinkin of me to do so right? I would hope so! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Puma Posted November 18, 2004 Author Share Posted November 18, 2004 yea bluchocolate, i see what you sayin. thanks, and yea i dont want to seem desperate just cause she contacted me im not goin to go crazy and start contactin her..i still have to be a lil of challenge right? she obviously does care for me i know thanks for everyones help Link to post Share on other sites
Scott S Posted November 18, 2004 Share Posted November 18, 2004 Originally posted by alphamale Where exactly did you glean the above info from. I don't see him saying anything about them both being the loves of each other's lives. What draws you to this conclusion??? He wrote it in another thread. Here it is: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t51678/ Link to post Share on other sites
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