holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 is my observation. I am not picky. All I ask is that I'm with a guy that I'm attracted to. It's fun being with someone that turns you on. Physically, everything is just so much more erotic. I don't see any attractive guys in my city. They don't have the 'look' that I'm attracted to. I come from a multiracial background so I guess it's only natural that I'm attracted to that look? I found one I liked in LA. But you know the story, he dumped me because of distance. What to do now? And how do you feel about the appearance of men in your city or town? Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I'm moving to where you live. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ouroboros Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 Beautiful women everywhere, attractive men nowhere... If you are finding women attractive but men not then it is time to admit to yourself your sexuality is not what you thought it was. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I find the majority of men I see day to day are attractive in some way or another, but I have a wide range of traits that I find attractive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 OMG I feel the same way. I'm in NYC and I feel like the young women here are so good looking. Most women my age really take care of themselves. Good clothes, hair, makeup. Attractive women. Meanwhile tons of men my age are balding, aging ungracefully, have really bad hygiene or are just physically beat. It also amazes me that these guys want to score 9's and 10's when they are hideous themselves. I have a hard time finding guys i'm physically attracted to. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 Multiracial and white guys are my preference. Everyone has a preference right? I just like that exotic look. But bring it on Mr. Castle. I'm not terrible picky. I'm not expecting to run into a James Dean or Marlon Brando. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I will agree that there beautiful women everywhere, however I cannot comment much on the men. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I also see way more attractive women than men. It's sad. But if you don't find ANY attractive man in your city then it's definitely time to move! Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 Multiracial and white guys are my preference. Everyone has a preference right? I just like that exotic look. But bring it on Mr. Castle. I'm not terrible picky. I'm not expecting to run into a James Dean or Marlon Brando. Heh. Well slow down now. I meant if all you have where you live are beautiful women and unattractive men, I should be able to clean up Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 I meant to say I'm not *terribly picky. And no I am not attracted to women in a sexual manner. Sorry hun. I recognize when women are pretty or beautiful. Marilyn Monroe is gorgeous, I don't view her in a sexual manner. Kim Kardashian is pretty, I don't want to bang her. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I meant to say I'm not *terribly picky. And no I am not attracted to women in a sexual manner. Sorry hun. I recognize when women are pretty or beautiful. Marilyn Monroe is gorgeous, I don't view her in a sexual manner. Kim Kardashian is pretty, I don't want to bang her. I beg to differ after five shots of Patron. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 I also see way more attractive women than men. It's sad. But if you don't find ANY attractive man in your city then it's definitely time to move! I agree. The midwest ain't for me. West coast baby. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 OMG I feel the same way. I'm in NYC and I feel like the young women here are so good looking. Most women my age really take care of themselves. Good clothes, hair, makeup. Attractive women. Meanwhile tons of men my age are balding, aging ungracefully, have really bad hygiene or are just physically beat. It also amazes me that these guys want to score 9's and 10's when they are hideous themselves. I have a hard time finding guys i'm physically attracted to. So true. We need to get together and find us some cuties! Everything you said is so true. That's why I'm taking being dumped by the long distance guy so hard. I didn't love him. But he took REALLY good care of himself. Nice body, clean shaven, good skin, great haircut, great hands and feet...just groomed from head to toe. So I'm left here thinking...how am I going to find this again? I don't feel like I'm asking for much. I take really good care of myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Imported Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 Where I live, there are tons of attractive women everywhere in all age ranges. There are also a lot good looking guys ...no homo! I'd have to say though, a lot of guys @my age let themselves go big time. I never use the excuse, "I am in good shape for my age". **** that. That's just an excuse to say I am fat, but it's OK because I am older now. No wonder why there are a **** ton of "cougars" chasing young cock. Most guys that are their age are flabby and sagging and have some impression that as woman get older they don't worry as much about what a guy looks like. Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 If "men your age" are the issue, I recommend you lower your age range. Link to post Share on other sites
cici713 Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 One guy I dated, I wasn't sure of the physical attraction. But there was a connection there so I went on a second date. The more I found a out him the attraction drew. He turned me on in a different way. Even though I wasn't drawn to him initially, there was more than meets the eye. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
JourneyLady Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 So true. We need to get together and find us some cuties! Everything you said is so true. That's why I'm taking being dumped by the long distance guy so hard. I didn't love him. But he took REALLY good care of himself. Nice body, clean shaven, good skin, great haircut, great hands and feet...just groomed from head to toe. So I'm left here thinking...how am I going to find this again? I don't feel like I'm asking for much. I take really good care of myself. Arlington and around the DC area... In the 25 to 40 age range anyhow. (Which is too young for myself...) Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 Heh. Well slow down now. I meant if all you have where you live are beautiful women and unattractive men, I should be able to clean up Honey you don't have to move to where I live, because I'm getting the vibe that attractive women out number attractive men everywhere. You're good anywhere you go. It's the women who are seeking attractive men that have the problem. You have no worries. Celebrate. Drink. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 Honey you don't have to move to where I live, because I'm getting the vibe that attractive women out number attractive men everywhere. You're good anywhere you go. It's the women who are seeking attractive men that have the problem. You have no worries. Celebrate. Drink. Well I just feel unless you live in a small town with a population of under a thousand, you shouldn't have trouble meeting physically attractive men. Unless your preferences are pretty rigid. The total package is rare everywhere, but purely looks? You should not be struggling significantly. Link to post Share on other sites
emva07 Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 Get out more. And not just go to bars. Go out more to parks, grocery stores, libraries, activities, etc. Go to new places. most people get into the work, home, gym, happy hour routine and only meet a small sliver of the people in their cities. Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 It is a total struggle. But it also could totally be that my 'type' is too picky, or that I'm in the wrong location for it. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 So....you don't find any men attractive in the city you live, or guys that try to pick you up aren't as attractive as you want? Is it possible that you're not as attractive as you think you are? Or is it possible that this a gross exaggeration? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 It depends on the perspective. Somebody here mentioned Kim Kardashian and there is nothing about her whatsoever that appeals to me. Overdone LA women do not really turn me on anyway. I am not attracted to men so I can't really what is attractive and what isn't but when I go to certain places 90% of people in general scare me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I'm moving to where you live. Me too....... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author holly25 Posted September 10, 2013 Author Share Posted September 10, 2013 So....you don't find any men attractive in the city you live, or guys that try to pick you up aren't as attractive as you want? Is it possible that you're not as attractive as you think you are? Or is it possible that this a gross exaggeration? When it comes to attraction I rate myself about right as do all the women that have posted I'm sure. That's the problem. We are attractive and take care of ourselves, but we aren't meeting our match. Like I said I come from a multiracial background. I'm in the wrong area when it comes to finding a guy with that look. I like white guys too, but I find I find the white guys on the west coast more attract than the midwestern ones I'm around. Link to post Share on other sites
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