So for those w/ phone contact, what are YOU in his/her phone as?

[crederer]

Seems most MM put their OW in their phone contact as a guy from work. I know mine does.

 

I always told him if she ever reads his texts to and from me, she's going to think he's totally in to guys.

 

I'm sure his wife isn't as daft as you apparently think she is.

 

Also, I was listed as "big D"

[bentleychic]

I'm sure his wife isn't as daft as you apparently think she is.

 

Also, I was listed as "big D"

She's incredibly smart. I don't think she's daft in the least, nor have I ever.

 

I'm a sarcastic person and when I said that to him, it was absolutely dripping with sarcasm.

[crederer]

LOL He is an odd one, but has done this since day 1. See, I have a thing where if someone pulls out their phone, I look away to give them privacy and I don't want them to think I'm being nosy. This is with ANYONE. Well, he pulls his phone out to send a text or look on fb, etc. and his phone is huge so if I don't look away, I can see everything. He always says I'm silly, I can see whatever and hands me the phone.

 

I'm the same way, though. He can look at my phone or fb if he wants to. I don't have anything to hide. (He's never taken me up on it, though.)

 

He has nothing to hide....except for you!

[maybemine]

I am listed under my first name in his phone. His wife is listed in his phone as first and last name. In my phone he is listed as a woman's name nothing remotely close to his name. I also look away when he's on his phone, but he doesn't hide anything from me....We communicate on an hourly basis and see each other often, he even texts when he's with his wife, and I when I'm with my husband. If there were not children involved we would just be together.

[maybemine]

He has nothing to hide....except for you!

This is true, which is why he doesn't lie to me, he doesn't need too.