Is there a cure for breaking someone's heart?

[BreeannS]

People want resolution. No "Im sorry BS". Who cares if your sorry. How are you planning to fix it??

I will leave him alone for the meantime and I guess only contact him if he wants to talk to me again.

[Gagirl]

Yes, you should sincerely apologize to that person. All my life, I've been shunned, shamed, had stories made up about me, thrown under the bus and treated like dog **** from perceived friends, family, spouse and co-workers. I've only gotten two apologies that I can remember. One because I backed this person in a corner per say and another because I pretended to be someone else over the Internet. Getting apologies sure would have helped me deal with all the anger and hurt but, guess they don't feel I'm worthy of those. But, on the flip side, it's made me a real scrapper.

[Lovely_Lu]

I don't think so. If you cheat on them it means you don't love truly love them. The question seems very anonymous as if you don't want anyone to know what happen.

 

I don't think you are at all qualified to judge that.

I do believe it is a symptom of a bigger problem though.

[Lovely_Lu]

There's no working out on cheating. (unless the cheated on is super desperate).

 

Why? Because either

- a) The cheater A didn't care about B's feelings, which means there is no feelings.

- b) The cheater A was extremely stupid (which sounds like your case) and that's extremely unattractive.

 

When people cheat it gives the cheated person a really clear picture about what to do and that is, leave and never look back.

 

You sound pretty bitter. Cheating is selfish - correct. Cheating is stupid - correct. To say that it automatically classifies a relationship as not being worth saving means you have either never loved someone nearly as much as yourself, you were seriously wronged by someone who may not have loved you or you must be perfect with a perfect partner and I just can't picture why someone of that classification would be on this forum.